Theres this big lady she probley wieghs about 300 pounds and everyday for lunch she would ask nicely if I happen to go out and get lunch to let her know. Now usually I do because she buys me lunch also and im totally up for free food. I know what im doing is wrong because im not helping her go out and get her excersise but I love free food what would you guys do in my situation?
2006-09-21 06:22:11 · 11 answers · asked by D'oh! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is fat is up to her not your responsibility and don't feel bad about it
2006-09-21 10:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her come out with you so she gets a little more exercise, or pick places where there are healthier food choices, less grease, you know. She might be happy with the way she looks, but I'd try healthier places to eat where she could get a salad or something, and just mention to her how this salad is so good, and how she should try it
2006-09-21 13:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her obesity is not your problem. She still needs to eat regardless of how much. However, you could return the favor once in a while and bring healthy stuff to snack on or big salad to share. Do you have a refrigerator at work? Stock it up!
2006-09-21 13:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a grown up. If she wants to be fat that is her business. Take the free food and mind your own business.
2006-09-21 13:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she knows that she is a heavy woman so it's her choice if she wants to stay that way or not. enjoy the free food!
2006-09-21 13:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get free food from her but try to tell her to go to do jogging also. And you will get new sport shoes.
2006-09-21 13:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by boathouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not really your place to monitor someone else's eating habits. if she asks for you help it's one thing, but for you to give it up voluntarily is not okay. maybe she is just looking for a friend and that's why she's buying your lunch..
2006-09-21 13:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's her problem - enjoy the free lunch !!!!
2006-09-21 13:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by jarhed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be wrong if YOU were asking BUT you are actually doing her a favor, so I wouldnt worry.
2006-09-21 13:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with it! it's free food for heaven's sake!
2006-09-21 13:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by kayzee1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋