This girl and I are chatting on the phone, yet I'm the one that always calls. We still talk for hours on end but I always do the calling. I dont want to seem needy, and im not, so i havent called in days and she hasnt text'd or called. I dont want to fall in the friend zone so what should i do? Stop calling all together? If i stop calling and we stop conversing then nothing will happen at all. I mean, we havent seen each other in months so what im saying is that i want the ball to keep rolling, the story with her and i to keep progressing. Please, flood me with all your good advice, the more the better.
2006-09-21 06:17:30 · 8 answers · asked by Legionnaire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry mi amigo, but you already WAY into the friend zone and you are probably NEVER going to get out. The best advice to preserve your own sanity is to stop calling her....today.
2006-09-21 06:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep calling her. She probably feels like you don't want to talk to her since you haven't called. And that's why she's leaving you alone. In fact, it's good she's not calling you. If a girl likes a guy, she wants the guy to do the calling. I will call my guy friends whenever, bc i don't feel weird doing it. But guys I like, I don't call them at all, unless they say, call me tomorrow or something like that. Bc I don't want to seem needy or pushy if they aren't into me. you may be doing the calling, but she's staying on the phone with you for a long time, so that says something. If she started cutting you short, then I would say stop calling her.
2006-09-21 06:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to call her and ASK her if she wants you to call. I am from the old school and would probably be waiting for you to call if I had feelings for you (especially if you didn't know it). Don't let something good fall through the cracks! Find out where she wants things to be.
2006-09-21 06:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main familiar element ur doing incorrect to this point as i will tell is ur greater friendly than flirty. the way u r, u dont sound like the variety to flirt, cuz ur so shy, so ladies think of of u because of the fact the guy around the corner. I often times have the comparable problems with fellows, I pay attention to them, on no account flirt, supply them advice on existence and often times ladies, so as that all of them think of of me as a pal. presently Ive began flirting greater and that enables ppl to work out u because of the fact the oposite intercourse and not in user-friendly terms a pal. In answer to the different question- No, its no longer incorrect to have a weigh down on a married female, in spite of if that's misguided to act on that weigh down why shes married. If she divorces that guy bcuz of u, then u could have ruined that toddlers existence. If she divorces him on her own, and then u go after her, thats distinctive. So go away her on my own as greater suitable than a pal until eventually she dumps the different guy, or u'll experience sorry approximately it. stable luck
2016-10-15 06:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep calling. Persistence always pays off.
2006-09-21 06:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read my lips cause i know from a womans prospective LEAVE HER ALONE cause the friend zone seems to be your only destination or at least lie to her and tell her that you have a girlfriend you care about, trust me she will come around
2006-09-21 06:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOO LATE - ur already in the friend zone - try a little distance for a while. see if she calls you!?!?
2006-09-21 06:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by JUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she's not into you. Leave her alone and see if she comes to you. If she doesn't then you know that it wasn't meant to be.
2006-09-21 06:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋