tell his girlfriend that i have been sleeping with him for the past couple of years.. he works in DC but has a home in Florida.. I am his girlfriend in DC who is sick of being what I consider the other woman.
2006-09-21 06:12:27 · 17 answers · asked by bond girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ARE U READY TO OPEN UP THAT CAN OF WORMS? IF SO, GO FOR IT.
2006-09-21 06:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by sammi girls mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont think you should be messing with him. There is a woman on the other side of this that is going to be very hurt. You think she wants to be the other woman?
But I dont think it is your place to tell her. You have to make him tell her. She should know, so she could decide whether or not she wants to waste her time with a cheater.
Plus if he has another girl and you, dont you think that it will be easy for him to cheat on you. I mean if he leaves her or whatever arent you worried that you will always be the other woman or at least even if you are the main women, then somebody else will be the other woman?
2006-09-21 13:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE the other woman. Like IT???? Do you want a future with this guy????? Your answer to both questions is "no", right? Then why are you still there?????? You bet I'd tell her --- all of it, and dump him too. There are lots of nice guys out there --- he just isn't one of them. Wake up, honey.... you are wasting your time, if a committed relationship is what you want. When I found out my husband was cheating on me, between that instant, and the time it took me to tell him I was outa there, and wanted a divorce, the guy didn't get to breathe twice!!!!!! End an 18 year marriage before he could blink!!!!
Then found a sweetie. You can too
2006-09-21 13:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all: you to old for this. Stop being a KNOWN participant in a situation and calling yourself the other woman. What is gained from you telling her? For him to leave her and only deal with you? Try to break them up? If you are unhappy, then stop being the other woman and be a woman and find a man (not already with someone). Just my opinon.
2006-09-21 13:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was with this girl before you than you are most certainly not his girlfriend. You are the other woman. You need to leave this man alone. He is a dog! Let his girlfriend find out for herself. But I suggest you end it before it comes to that. She will eventually find out that he is a dog whether because of his affair with you or someone else.
2006-09-21 13:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were the other woman and you told me this I would probably have the blood of two people on my hands. Why don't you do all concerned a favor and dump the dog (although after two years I think you are just as much of a dog as he is)?
2006-09-21 13:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John 8:31 Jesus told the people who had faith in him, "If you keep on obeying what I have said, you truly are my disciples.
John 8:32 You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."
2006-09-21 13:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not for you to do, you don't have to tell her anything, that is his business.....what I would recommend is for you to stop letting him use you and go on with your life.....you are better than this, you don't need to be someone's second plate when you can be someone else's princess....I think is time you gave yourself the treatment and respect you deserve....stop sleeping with him, value yourself enough to know that you don't need this...when you can have it all!!!
2006-09-21 13:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't 'cause you knew about her b4 you took the deal. now the di is soo good that you want it all 2 ur self. don't you ring the alarm!!!!, you are the other woman chill get stuff go places enjoy him and if you know better than do better.
2006-09-21 13:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by smartbluewater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!! Then he'll have a hell of a time trying to explain to her why he's feeling rocked lately. (If he gives a d___)If you are looking for a commitment find someone willing to give it. Otherwise, keep playing around until you get really hurt.
2006-09-21 13:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by island girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man cheats, he obviously doesn't think it's wrong. How do you know he isn't cheating on you with more then this other girl. He's a bum, honey. Find a guy who is worth your while. I wouldn't tell her unless she asks, but I'd DEFINITELY DUMP HIM!
2006-09-21 13:16:26 · answer #11 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋