At my house I'm the one that takes care of everything. I clean the house, mow the yard and take care of the animals and I'm only 15. I've been doing all of that since I was 11. Well this year I rebelled against my parents and lost my virginity to someone that I didn't really like. Now I might be pregnant and I have friends that are helping me, but how do I do tell my parents?
2006-09-21 04:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by Tanya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you be honest with your parents
Telling them the truth lets them know that you are trying to take responsibility for what ever happens
always keep a open line of communication with them because you will need there help if you are
I hope everything works out
go to the doctor to confirm before you just tell them your pregnant
2006-09-21 05:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by jenniferevans32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be scared, be very scared.
First of all, you found a really GREAT way to rebel, and for what? Just because you're doing chores that you don't like. Did it ever occur to you that you'll be the one who's going to ultimately suffer by what you just did? Your parents won't be the one carrying the baby, feeding the baby, and be primarily responsible for the baby in the long run. This means you won't be able to go out as much anymore, and you'll have someone to look after for the REST of your life. In other words, consider your childhood ended.
Although it's great you have friends, did you ever ask yourself what kind of help they can actually give you? They won't pay your bills to see the doctor? Tell you what to eat, things to avoid while you're pregnant--you need your parents right now (especially your mom). You have to be honest and tell them that you've made a big mistake. They can give you the advice you need right now in order to make a right decision. But honestly, if they are not in favor of supporting you in any way, you might want to consider giving up your baby for adoption. You are way too young for such a big responsibility.
2006-09-21 13:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of a 15 year old step-daughter and a 14 year old daughter I would say first go to your local health department and get a test done, this way it will be accurate, they can also give you birth control and do not tell your parents they leave that up to you. If you are pregnant then you need to tell your parents. My suggestion would be to sit down with them after supper and tell them that you have something to tell them. Tell them that you are pregnant and although you know it was a dumb thing to do you need them to help you. I will warn you though chances are they are going to be upset, yell, have a fit and say a lot of things that they will rethink after they calm down so be prepared. Also whether or not you like this boy is really not the point if you are pregnant your parents need to know who it is so they can get with his parents. There will be a big finacial burden even if you don't keep the baby and he should pay half. As a mom I would be very hurt and upset if this happened to one of my daughters but it wouldn't change the way I feel about them and I doubt it will your parents either. You made the choice to act like and adult when you had sex now you have to pay the consequences. And please if you aren't pregnant get on birth control for one and then really think before having sex, you are still young and this is an act that can cause great emotional problems not to mention health problems.
2006-09-21 12:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can i say.....what made u do such a thing...i know i dont know u but seriously this is serious. i mean did he force u ???
the main point is ur only 15 thats what makes it worser... cuz u are not allowed to marry until 18 unless u got someones permission be likely u really outta tell ur parents in such a way that they understand the more u lie the more problems will occur
i know im not much help
sorry
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2006-09-21 12:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by roxassnake16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking care of everything at home does not have anything to do with you getting pregnant. This was a bad decision you have made that you now have to live with.
Think about what you want to do with the baby then inform your parents about your decision. Let them know you need their support and encouragement on what ever decision you make.
Most of all never tell them you did this to rebel. Imagine how it would sound like when you say "I got myself pregnant because I do everything around here."
2006-09-21 12:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Georgina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let friends advise you wrongly. When its around 6.15am local time (morning), call your Mum inside your room, make her feel relaxed, and open to her very dearly all that had happened. Start with telling her you were sorry for your wrong behavior, and proceed to tell her the loss of your virginity. Let her then lead you to your father. Note: If, and only if, there is a pregnancy, abortion is NOT the solution. Let your parents know you take responsibility for your action. They will receive you.
2006-09-21 12:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kenny2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi tanya. you really need to know if you are r aren't pregnant. just because you period is late(if it is?), it might just be so because you're tressed about this. i really urge you to get a test 1st, so you'll know for deffinae. they are very easy to use so don't be frightened. you and your best friend should do this together. don't tell the whole worl because your parents might find out from someone else, which would make the sittuation muck worse. if you are pregnant, its not the end of the world. i aggree that you are quite young, but don't think of it as life-ending. its tough, and don't be blind to that but i'm sure you will know youself what the best thing to do is. best of luck pet. thinking of you. xxx
2006-09-21 12:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by mum of 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you went to the doctor and that you have a very aggresive form of cancer and that no treatment will help.
When they calm down tell them that you're only pregnant and the cancer stuff was just a joke.
In this case the pregnancy news is good.
2006-09-21 11:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by momoftwo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God.
Thats what you call rebelling for contributing around the house.
Why would you do that...
Now you are going to be stuck a teenage mother unless you choose otherwise.
2006-09-21 12:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by Wite Out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear u need to speak to your parents about this, it is going to be tough. there will be ppl telling u to go for abortion but pls never ever do this cos this kid is a life in itself, so u must never trigger such thought. your parents will be in a better positon to help u on this. never go against them too because they are your parents after all even if they treat u badly. will pray 4u.
2006-09-21 13:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋