i really like this guy, his names matt. we've know each other for a while and well we've been hanging out alot lately. we kiss and stuff like that but he says that we're not really dating. how does that work? im confused and don't know what to do. I completely understand that he just got out of a long relationship, but why would he be kissing me if he doesn't want to be with me? Should i be the one to ask him out? Or should i wait for him to ask me?
2006-09-21 04:50:46 · 6 answers · asked by undercover_cosmotelogist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him straight.
2006-09-21 04:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't "ask him out". just enjoy his flirting and keep your heart out of it. If you can't do that then you need to put an end to the whole thing. You never want to pressure a guy like that. That will send him packing quicker than anything.
2006-09-21 11:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, wait for him to ask you out and quit kissing him till then
2006-09-21 11:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he just wants to have the feeling he used to have when he was still unavailable, but he doesnt wanna go into another relationship anytime soon. my suggestion: if u really love him then wait for his wound to heal, but if u think he is usin u this way then forget him
2006-09-21 11:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress to attract next time you go out with him.
Go someplace where there are guys of your age group.
Watch him squirm, and when guys talk to you talk back.
Don't make it seem like you're flirting though, act like you have no idea.
-G
2006-09-21 11:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he might jus using u.. maybe u shld ask him out.. but try not to be too obivious and i hope he really likes u.. if not forget about it.. actually guys can kiss and make love with girls even they dun like them.. but mostly us( normally girls) can't.. good luck to u.. hopes he is true towards u... ^ ^
2006-09-21 12:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by wination 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋