....What does that mean? We have been dating / living together for 5mo now..... I am a little hurt. Is that wrong?
2006-09-21 04:49:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a big deal to tell someone you love them and you took the risk of saying it first. I say, straight up ask him if he loves you instead of trying to over-analyze it yourself. He's probably scared, just like all guys are, of commitment.
2006-09-21 04:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by _chooly_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is the thing...you and me girl are in the same boat on this one! Me and my boyfriend have been dating/adn livign together for 4months now...i honestly and truthfully do not believe that you are wrong...i know how you feel! Every time i tell my bf that i love him he says that too but i just come back with a comment like"well maybe if you paid attention to me more then you would know!" then i laugh that way there is no bad feelings in the air and that way he knows i am not being mean, i am just trying to show him how i feel! maybe one thing that would get your bf is when he tells you he loves you then all you got to say is,"i know"! that would get him adn then when he gets mad because you said that then i believe you should tell him, that is how you were feeling too! Well if my advice is not that great then, i am sry! Maybe it will help you out!
2006-09-21 11:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by misterandy_17@yahoo.com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just not ready to tell you yet. Those words are strong words to say to someone. why let him tell you IF he don't mean it.
I would rather him say it and mean it then tell me what I want to hear.
So don't force it out of him or stress over it. If you guys made it to the 5th month and are living together give it some time he will come around.
2006-09-21 11:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon since you are living with him honey, that he feels like he's pretty much got you right where he wants you. So to him,
you saying "I love you" is pretty much superfluous. Guys are so literal - you live with him, he gets sex when & where he wants it,
you do all the "wifely" things - so when you say I love you, he already knows. Try not to be too hurt, try to understand stuff from his point of view. They are just different.
2006-09-21 12:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he say he loved you back? If he didn't wthen maybe he doesn't feel the fact about you as you feel about him.
Another point: It would have been nice for you all to say the "I love you" before you moved in together, because if it turns out he doesn't love you, and you want him gone, then what will happen with the rent?
2006-09-21 11:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 of 2 things. Maybe he has a problem saying I love you....does he say it to his parents, siblings,etc? Does he show his love in little ways instead of verbally? Other possibility is that he doesn't love you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
2006-09-21 11:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by happyendingsonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what did you expect. If he had told you he loved you 3 months ago would you have lied to him and said "Me too."?
Did he run away? Did he leave you? Stop stressing about the little stuff. You will just drive him away if you press the issue.
He will tell you when it is HIS time, not when it is YOUR time.
2006-09-21 11:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then tell him how you feel. So many people come here instead of going to their bf/gf who seems to be the root of the issue. Communication and honesty are key. TALK WITH HIM!!!
2006-09-21 12:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds Like What Han Solo said to Princess Leia when she said it to Him I think he is telling you he Loves back
2006-09-21 11:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That means he knows you love him, but he doesn't love you back...
2006-09-21 11:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋