Do guys prefer it if you play it cool when you have first started going out with them or do they prefer you to actually show them how you really feel?
Will I look too clingy?
Anyone got any tips for me on how to do things right?? I really want him to like me!!
2006-09-21 04:43:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is when you dont let him know that you like him. Most men are just as insecure as women, and if they dont think you like them they will look elsewhere to some confident dork who will go straight upto them and ask them out
2006-09-21 04:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by dunc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad fact is that it depends on what you want. All men are hunters (if they are not then forget them because they are really women). If you want a lasting relationship you have to play it cool and lure them in bit by bit. They will have to earn the right to move to the next level and earn the reward of getting closer to you and learning that you might like them just a little bit and so on. Only when they are completely hooked should you let them know that you are interested. Telling them you love them comes a long way after that even. Of course if you just want a quick fling tell them how great they are and how much you want them. If they dont run a mile at the realisation that the hunt isnt the way its supposed to be, you will have your fling and they will be out of your life really fast looking for a more interesting hunt.
2006-09-21 06:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chilli P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a first date yeah, so dont go spiling your life story to him. talk about everyday things and how things get to you. what you like doing what you hate doing. dislikes an likes is a real good start.
dont show him with words that you like him. say the odd cheeky thing now and then, but only if you know where to drop it. dont say obvious things, it might come across as sluty. just let your eyes do the talking when you look at him breifly, joke about flirt so he knows you like him. but dont put your self on the line and make it SO BLOODY OBVIOUS ca you will feel so vunrable if he dont feel the same as you and it might put youoff or hinder your confidence for the next time. goodluck. oh and dont talk too much, men love to talk. so if yoru too shy, it dont matter ask something which youknow will take him long to reply so you can think of something else to say. and if its that difficult to think of somthing to say, just forget him and go back fishing. xx**)
2006-09-21 04:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like different things but I would say the majority like the feeling that the girl that is with them enjoys being with them and is proud of them. If that is showing public affection then so be it. Some just know it and don't expect public affection. Try it first and you will see by his reaction if he enjoys public affection or is more of a private guy
2006-09-21 04:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i guy like a gentle intro, so after the 4 or 5th date if u let them know u really like em thats cool if u dont give something out he will prob feel he barking up the wrong tree depends if u are serious and want the relationship long term or its just 4 fun though
2006-09-21 08:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool, there is nothing worse than a woman acting all clingy men hate that. Keep your distance and pretend you dont really care, but dont over do it, or he may think you dont care!
2006-09-21 04:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer if no games are involved all that guessing and having to wait a certain amount of time before calling and texting blah blah I'm too old for all that malarky
2006-09-21 04:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and take things slow allow him to lead and then you follow. Once the two of you have really gotten to know each other then you can start to move in different directions.
2006-09-21 04:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't try to act in a way that will change a few months down the road. That change will turn guys off.
2006-09-21 04:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and enjoy yourself. Its always easier when you do tht coz down the line you will still need to show your true colors. When you show you are confident and comfortable in your own skin, stand by your word he will be attracted, it worked for me, hope it does for you too, good luck
2006-09-21 05:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by babyphat20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋