Pls. read 1st ques. about crying child. Additional details that effect this.PLEASE ADVISE What is mom thinkin

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I cant fit all the details in 1 ?. Childs grandmother was keeping him,she is the 1 that actually called me 1st.Mother +Grandma came for interview.In response to my questions she said child was around 1,walked,used sipee cup but still took some formula.during interview grandma kept silent while the mom did all the talking.Mom volunteered all info B4 I had a chance 2 ask.She stated he was a very behaved 11 mo old who rarely IF EVER cried,she wouldnt drop him off B4 6:30,and would NEVER bring him if he was sick BC she didnt want my baby to get sick and agreed I would B pre-paid.2 UNDERSTAND ALL INFO U MUST READ MY LAST Q's.She brings him early causing my daugh 2 miss bus,claims hes sick everyday (by the way where is his medicine from the MD if he has infection)She dont give it 2 me.My fees R dirt cheap yet she wont even pay right.She barges n my home but she never knocks on the door.It upsets her if she has 2 knock!Do u think she knew her kid was a terror and lied 2 me?my baby is upset to

Oh he can walk but he wont. He cries to b carried. He only crawls if u go 2 bathroom,etc and u wont take him with u after he cries a minute then he crawls.He will not hold his own bottle or sippee cup U have 2 hold them up to his mouth and tilt his head back so he will drink. At his age he should be doing this. If he cees me on phone he screams until i hang up.Hes a bit chunky 2 so hes heavier to carry all the time

I dont know what 2 do.Hes making it hard 4 me to take care of my 6 month old.He gets mad and cries if I hold or give attention 2 my own child.And 4 petes sake, my 6 month old can hold his own bottle.Im worried that his screaming is going 2 affect my child and hes been sick since I took these people on as clients.All this stuff they told me, that he could walk, drink by himself and that he rarely ever cried, has all been untrue. I wonder if this is why his grandma cant keep him anymore.She apparently lied about never bringing him early or bringing him when he was sick BC she has done it everyday.Do ya'll think he is really sick or is that moms excuse BC she is desperate 4 someone 2 keep him? R they taking advantage of me?

Answer 1

sounds to me she really needed a sitter and fooled you big time. if you have no written contract b/w the 2 of you tell her in a business like manner that this is not working out and she will have to find other means of having a sitter for her child that you are un able to do so. if you have a contract, then abide by the terms agreed upon and give her a 7-10 day notice that you are ending you're services with her. if she doesn't like it oh well after all it is your business at risk and also your family.

Answer 2

Beginning and end of it, there's no such thing as a very behaved 11 mo old that rarely cries and can't stand to be left on the other side of the bathroom door.

Do you by any chance have experience with children aside from your own little one, who will do the same exact thing as soon as she's mobile. He does seem to be a bit more needy and may feel a bit abandoned - separation anxiety?.

Unfortunately, there's no excuse for the rude behavior of his mother. Don't think I read anything about a contract. If there is none, the kind thing to do is give her 2 weeks notice to find another place for her child. There are some sample childcare agreements on-line. Might suggest looking one up and having a contract in place for the next try? Good luck.

Answer 3

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