I had this boyfriend for 2 years 8th and 9th grade and then we broke up but still talked in 10th grade. I changed schools, but still lived in the same area. So, I started talking to another guy that went to my old school. Well, me and my current boyfriend have been together for 10 months, me and my ex-boyfriend have been broken up for two years and I don't think he is over it. He always tries to talk to me on myspace or always tries to ask my boyfriend questions about the homework (they have classes together),but there are 30 other kids in the class. Also I always catch him lookin at me at football games or at the park. And, he always stares at my boyfriend. Also, he has had a few g/f but they only lasted a couple of days, and he always claims he is "hooking up" with other girls, but then I ask the girls and its not true. What do you think... Is he over it?
2006-09-21 04:34:55 · 8 answers · asked by Sexy Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We broke up because he cheated on me then lied and all kinds of other things. Also, he wasn't always nice to me and often said mean things to put me down.
I only look when he is walking past, but I am over him. He was my first love so there is that " first love" thing there. But I never want to be with him again.
2006-09-21 04:42:16 · update #1
i don't think he is.
you should come up to him one day and say "stop being so creepy, geez!!"
let him know that there's NOTHING that could happen between you two. yay!!
2006-09-21 04:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by its just me!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may not be, no.
I'm not going to criticize him, either, because as an adult it took me a good 18 months to get over the very worst bits of having lost a woman (another long-distance relationship that didn't work out). Then I continued to write her letters from time to time for quite a few years, and even postcards from my travels for even longer.
Over 10 years have passed now, and I am married, with 4 children, and when I happen to see her on the street it still gives me a small shock, and on the (very) few occasions that our paths have crossed, or nearly crossed, on the street, I have had heart rate up and the rest.
So leave the guy alone, hopefully he'll find someone he can be fine with for longer. At some point.
2006-09-21 04:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by AntoineBachmann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i will completely know the form you experience. it is my outlook on it. you're his lady, he has been with you for 2 years. He could admire your thoughts earlier her any day. So- the actuality that he further her and frolicked along with her.. is disrespectful to me. no longer in trouble-free terms did she attempt and initiate drama, yet you're completely uncomfortable with it. He says he does not choose drama? Drama with who- HER? because of the fact if he did no longer choose drama with YOU. then he wouldn'tve usual her. So, you may desire to place your foot down. i'm useful if a guy that attempted to break you up earlier.. tried to come lower back back around and you frolicked with him- your boyfriend could lose his techniques. SO-- If he could no longer admire your thoughts.. and keep this going- some thing has to alter. you may positioned YOU first .. and say " i'm no longer handling this". supply him some type of ultimatum. It sucks that it should be this way.. yet you do no longer choose to proceed with this dating on the same time as he's being her chum. reliable luck.
2016-12-12 12:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by moncalieri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. He probably still adores you and wishes it was him you chose and not the current guy. If you want to maintain a strictly friendship relationship...you need to say so. He'll appreciate you for it, because at this point, without you saying something, he probably thinks you like it.
2006-09-21 04:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by marky_mark_w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one he isnt over it. Number two hes not worth thinking about if hes this immiture. He lies to you that he hooks up with girls? If he was a real guy, he would confess his feelings to you straight out. But hes just jealous and immiture. So no hes not over it. But you better be.
2006-09-21 04:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be over it, but that's not your problem. You have to live your life and do what makes you happy.
If I knew why you broke up I could probably give you a little more advice
2006-09-21 04:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is over it. you have to be lookin at him to know he is looking at you maybe you are not quite over it. to be asking these girls if he really hooked up or not? come on i think the real question is are you ever going to get over him ?
2006-09-21 04:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be so over it that he is extra comfortable now.
2006-09-21 04:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋