my wife who's more than 8 years older to me who had given a birth twin girls 6 weeks ago she s 44 and will turn 45 on december.she already has 2 year old daughter by me. and three girls from her previous marriage.now she s developed a symptom of pregnancy.is is safe if she aborts while sh's breatsfeeding.also she s Roman Catholic her faith doesnt allow her abortion what should i do.
2006-09-21 04:27:00 · 14 answers · asked by enric_est 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I dont see how she can pregnant and far enough along to be feeling symptoms by 6 weeks after her delivery. That would mean you had sex with her 4 weeks ago, and I doubt she would have ovulated that soon. Also she should not have had sex until 8 weeks afterwards for a C-Section. I really hope this is a joke.
2006-09-21 04:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear ! It does sound as if your wife might be pregnant yet again, however I do think that 6 children is ample, isn't it a good job that all couples don't produce so many children, the world population would treble in just 1 generation - that's very wrong. I think you need to have a consultation with a doctor and maybe get him to persuade her to have an abortion ( if it's safe to do so ) for her own health. I do hope everything turns out well for you.
2006-09-21 04:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she needs to check with the doctor about it being safe. As far as abortion i think that she needs to get one if she is pregnant and since she is so fertile if she is pregnant and she does decide to abort then she needs to get on BC or have her tubes tied. You are more fertile after you have one then before you do. She has too many children alreay and as far as religion she needs t pray to god he will give her and answer. There is such things as too many. I want a baby so bad and i have been ttc for a year and a half and nothing. hopefully god will bless me one day. I wish all the luck to you. See a doctor and maybe a consular
2006-09-21 04:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by helpif i can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally if she's breast feeding she cant get pregnant, so long as she's exclusively feeding or pumping.
Plus, she's only 6 weeks from delivery. That means she's only maybe 2-3 weeks pregnant. which means you would have had to have sex less than a month from her delivering twins....
Thats far fetched? Why are you not wrapping that boy up?
I doubt highly she's pregnant. ALthough its not impossible. But after just having twins its unlikely that she had sex before her 6 week post delivery mark, let alone 3-4 weeks after delivery. Even if she did, its hella early for her body to be ovulating again. Most woman havent even finished shedding all the uterine lining from birth by that point.
2006-09-21 04:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would think it was risky at her age. I'm 44 myself and the thought of that terrifies me. She has several little blessing already but I certainly wouldn't abort the baby, that's just God's way of saying you get to have a nother blessing. However I would certainly go on some kind of birth control, and if she can't because she's nursing then you should start wearing raincoats, take some responsibility yourself on this one. My Lord she's got to be exhausted
2006-09-21 04:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buddy keep it in your pants and leave that woman alone! Good lord she cant get an abortion if she is catholic and guess what? It is not a form of birth control! So just keep it to yourself!
2006-09-21 04:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by lisapj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a choice for your wife to make not you. As for it being safe for her...her doctor needs to decide that. If you two are not able to provide for anymore children, you should consider adoption....after that maybe one of you should become surgically sterile. I know...the Catholic religion doesn't allow that either .... but, it sure beats killing a baby.
2006-09-21 04:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is wrong!!!!!! You deal with it and do something about it. That is a lot of kids and if you didn't want anymore, one of you should get fixed. Vascectomies are not that expensive. And there is always the pill.
2006-09-21 04:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by a d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a doctor check her out and see if it is safe for her to have this child.. women over 35 have harder times gving birht and have more risks with it.. if she is helthy enough to have it then have it.. WEAR A CONDOM OR GET HER TUBES TIED.. if you dont want this to happen again .. but because of her faith do not make her abort it.. i personally dont agree with it..
2006-09-21 04:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by t1ch1a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did you have sex with her to put her in this condition?
If her faith doesn;t allow abortion, you go through with the pregnancy.
2006-09-21 04:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋