I knew he was gay before even meeting the guy. It was the way he posed in the pictures with his girlfriend. Not kidding here, he would stick his butt out (in a family portriat of about 20 people) in an awkward position, and his hands looked so femininie..... and the family would make fun of the portrait of the way he posed which was unusual for a man?
Can this type of marriage last?
2006-09-21 04:24:39 · 24 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
They just married recently, and wondering do these types of marriages last?
2006-09-21 04:26:02 · update #1
Mitch, Yes, am a cross-dresser so yes, I am curious about all.
2006-09-21 09:34:31 · update #2
I dont think so there are things men can give him you cant. If he is gay he will probably end up cheating and you dont want him to bring back an diseases to you. Be very careful in making this decison. Make sure you weigh all the facts first.
2006-09-21 04:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many 'feminine' type of men & usually they pair up with a 'masculine' type of female. If the couple is totally honest with each other, then yes this marriage can last. To everyone there is a reason & a season. They made a commitment to last a life time, & all marriages there is alot of work put into the relationship between husband & wife. Everything else, is none of anyone's business.
2006-09-21 07:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by pixie1elf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now there are some guys that are more feminine than others and they are not necessarily gay. But if you feel that this person is gay, the answer is No, they do not work out. Look at the story that is out now with that ex-governor that had been married twice and neither of those marriages work out and now he's in a relationship with a man now.
2006-09-21 04:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. My parents didn't. Eventually, he will come out of the closet like he should. The only problem with this is that it could be twenty years down the road. She will also get some hints along the way and in the end a whole lot of heartache. Try talking to him about this before the damage is done.
2006-09-21 04:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends......Just because he posed funny in a picture does not mean he is gay. If he is gay and getting married for approval from society, family or friends then statistically these marriages do not last.
2006-09-21 04:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some gay men amrry to hide from themselves that they are gay. It will last as long as he can lie to himself about who he truly is.
There are some men that just exude feminine qualities without being gay as well. Is it possible that maybe he is just one of those guys? They have mannerisms much like a woman but they truly are heterosexual.
I say be happy they found love even if it is only or a short time. LOVE is too fragile and precious not to celebrate.
2006-09-21 04:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They do last and can as long as the woman knew for a fact he was gay when she married him.
If his interest is to have a relationship with another man while married to her, she should also beable to go ut and enjoy causal sex with another too. But she best watch out, or he just may take her new man away! hahaha
2006-09-21 04:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if this marriage is based on friendship only. Gay marriages only make relationships strained. There is no romance and worry is always there for disease etc. Your are only getting half of what you need out of this marriage. gay man are the best for friendship in my mind. One i would never disagree on.
2006-09-21 04:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by ERIN S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The marriage will last if it is based first on friendship and secondly on sex, always in that order of understanding, forgiveness and freedoms. Otherwise the allure for what is physically more desirable, will cause him to have to cheat, or leave her all together.
2006-09-21 04:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, so you think you know he's gay.......but how do you know she's straight? And what does it matter if it lasts or not.
Time will be the indicator. So called 'normal' marriages dont fare well these days. So why should this one???
2006-09-21 04:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋