I've been seeing a guy for about 2 1/2 months, we're not 'boyfriend/girlfriend' because we've both came out of serious relationships and are afraid to be hurt.. I don't really care either way on the titles.
Well he's a strange duck and honestly doesn't like to hang out with more than one person at a time, when he's with me he likes it to be just me, his best friend just his best friend ect.. so if i call and he's with his best friend he either will keep it very short and vague or he wont answer and he'll call me later - usually call me later. though he doesnt call if he gets home really late.
My problem with this is I've been cheated on a lot and it makes me feel nervous, or that he's avoiding me (which i know isn't true).
Is it too early to ask him to stop doing this with me? To answer then or just send me a text saying he's busy and will call later/tomorrow just to ease my nerves?
We're in our early 20's and i refuse to spy on him as someone else suggested.
2006-09-21 03:58:58 · 2 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems to me that you are answering all your own questions. You say that he likes to devote all his time to one person, so that is exactly what he is doing. There is no crime for being this way (as you said yourself). You are perhaps just 'projecting' past experience on to this relationship. The 'issue' with doing this is that you are tainting this new relationship with the problems of your 'old ones'. Unless you would like to repeat the cycles of the past with the mistrust and insecurity you feel, I would sit back and enjoy the ride....
2006-09-21 04:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by holistic_service 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way too early. . . you're pushing the envelope. Hang out and wait and things will work out.
2006-09-21 11:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋