what do u do when ur oldest child accuses u of always beating him infront of there granmother when you don't

Answer 1

i did that to my mom once when i was in school. I told the teacher my mom beat me when i was in trouble. It was because my mom used to say "i'll beat your butt if you dont stop that" or something else like that i had heard.

Of course the teacher when clypto, but its not like i was bruised or hurt in anyway ever.

kids come up with some really weird things sometimes. Their grandma should knwo you better than that, and she should also be able to realize that the child is unmarked and unharmed everytime she sees it.

It does send up red flags in every adult, but trust me, just about every kid does it to their parent.. its just part of life with kids :)

you should sit down with your son and explain to him what a beating is, and what a spanking is, so he can know the difference. Things like this are often nothing more than cases of ignorance.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

It really depends on how old the child is. If the child is up to about age 10 I would say that you are pretty safe as long as there are no bruises and cuts and what not on the child. Sit down and talk to your child and explain to them what will happen if they tell people that you are beating them. Explain to them that there are lots of kids out there that really do get beaten by their parents even when they did nothing wrong. Explain to him or her that it will not be tolerated that they tell people that or the "police" (CPS) will come pick him/her up and take you away and they will have to go get a new mommy and daddy and they probably wont buy them all the nice things that you buy. This is serious if the child is older. If this is a young child I would say that it is normal because they don't understand that when you tell them that you are going to beat them- they take you literally and want to mimick what you told them to teachers, counselors, other parents. Be careful what you say to your kids! While they are young that realize that consequences of what they say and don't realize that its wrong and they may just enjoy the attention they get from other people whenever they say that!

Answer 4

I had to think about this one........I would definitely tell grandma that you don't beat your child (although she probably already knows this). I would tell the child that there are kids that really are beat every day. And to say that isn't a joke. I would also tell them that if they continue to tell other people that I beat them, then there will be consequences for their actions. They would be grounded from whatever they liked doing for a week the first time, and longer if it happened again. The most drastic thing you could probably do, and I would only do it as a very last resort, was to not let them go to grandmas when the other children go. If he can't control himself there, then he shouldn't go there for a while.

Answer 5

Ask him in front of the grand parents: "Why are you telling such a lie"
He'll say it's true, and them ask him to show some bruises, or any other evidence as proof.
Of course there will be nothing, and he'll probably storm out screaming. When he's out, talk openly to the grandparents, and tell them that he's lying.
Next, go and see him in private, and confront him, asking him why he is lying.
Most liars back out very quickly, if confronted with having to give evidence.

Answer 6

My son did this in the middle of a custody court case, so I know the feeling.

I screamed so hard that he never did it again. Basically your child is lying and lying needs to be punished. You have the power and if the child is going to make life hard for you, you need to show him/her that you can also make life hard in return. There would be no electronic games or television in my house.

My son told his dad that the nanny choked him when she merely put her hands on his shoulders when she needed to get him out to the car to go to school. He resented his loss of control and tried to get her into trouble.

Answer 7

oldest kids usually feel lonely because we tend to take care of younger kids .it is a feeling usually felt because they tend to see the present and they dont understand that they are also well looked after when they are young
when they are not getting complete attention they look to other people usually grandparents bcos they are close to them and they want some attention for them so they will tell or do these things
just pay them some attention be friendly and most important thing is involve them while u are with younger kids.

Answer 8

I tell people I beat mine. She deserves it anyway.

She has had friends over and I have told her "you better call 241-KIDS now" Sometimes I tell her " You've got one phone call and it better be to someone to stop me"

She was mouthing one morning going out the door and I swung my hand and made contact. We were late that morning but I was so proud I made contact and now I remind her Ill bloody your nose again. I have to tell everyone that story. She gets mouthy cause she knows I can't catch her but I got her that time.

AS to your son. Im A B*tch. I would have told him "and the next time I will break your jaw so you keep your mouth shut" You can also look up the crap that happens to kids in foster care. I remind mine of that a lot. This year we had someone keeping the kids in dog cages and we have a couple in court now for locking a boy (3 yrs old) in a closet for 3 days while they went out of town. Came back he was dead so they took the body to the country and caught it on fire. Their lives can always be worse

Answer 9

Beat them! LOL I'm totally kidding. Wow the kid must really resent you for some reason. You should sit and talk with them if they are old enough for that. And if that doesn't work then beat the rotten brat!

Answer 10

yup... call their bluff...

say to the gradma.. "yup I think social services is going to take the kids away any day and send them to live in an orphanage... do you wanna help me pack?"

or say to them "ok lets call social services and see what they will do"


kids say stuff in front of people because they know its safe to because you wont react negatively infront of the person.. so surprise the kid... "GO TO YOUR ROOM... I AM DISCONNECTING THE PLAYSTATION.... OK THATS 1 WEEK NO TV FOR YOU... " whatever - punish them for lying and punish them INFRONT of the grandparent so they realise that just because grandma is there you dont ignore the bad behavior