and now she's got a job and there's no indication for her to move out and i'm getting tired 'cause i want to spend time alone with my close family, should i let her know how i feel?, 'cause i don't want to hurt her feelings...
2006-09-21 03:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by toing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sit her down and explain without anger that you have your own house because you need you own space with your family. That having visitors is fine - but for a limited reasonable time.
Explain that families need space to argue, love, grow together, and BE without others, however much loved, around. That's why couple leave home and set-up together
Offer all the help you can to help her find her own place and explain the pleasures of making a new place 'a home'.
2006-09-21 03:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by blithespirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her that now that she is working, she would have more privacy if she moved to her own place. Even offer to help her look for a place that she can afford. Then offer to help her move her things and help "fix up" and decorate her new place.
That doesn't mean that you help buy the things she may need, simply help her physically and morally. Then tell her she is welcome to spend some time with your family, but that she needs to call ahead and not just drop by. If she's good family, then she should understand without hurting her feelings. She needs to get her own life.
2006-09-21 03:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Helen G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her one on one and explain that her living there is causing a strain on your relationship with your family and give her a time frame to move out. suggest you will go with her to look for apartments if she wants. She should feel excited about getting her own place.!!
2006-09-21 04:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her what you told us and give her a dead line. Make it fair as she didn't do anything wrong.
2006-09-21 03:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have an open talk
2006-09-21 03:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋