I am dating this lovely young lady, but I am thinking it is time to call it quits. The downside of our relationship is larger than the upside. Her insecurities are driving me crazy. Enough is enough, I can do so much better. What is your breaking point or deal breaker??
It's not like we are married anyway!!!
2006-09-21 03:06:06 · 17 answers · asked by Krunky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like you don't care much about the relationship anyways. So why drag it out? Go and get yourself something "so much better" Good luck! Sorry I'm not a fella
2006-09-21 03:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's insecure about herself, the insecurity will show in every aspect of your relationship.
Any girl you look at, you will have slept with. Twice.
Anytime someone cute walks into the room, you were staring at her boobs, which automatically means that you find hers lacking.
It will be your job to CONSTANTLY remind her that she is worthy/beautiful/intelligent/not worthless/etc.
And more... much more!!
Can you handle that?
If so, go for it. If not, drop her. It's not wrong to do so, but you might inadvertently reinforce the beliefs she had.
Your call, dood. I'd've dropped her a looong time ago. Been there, done that, got the photo album...
2006-09-21 03:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deal breaker is to at least try and talk with her. If you care for her tell her how you feel. Did you ever think that maybe it could be you that makes her insecure. Are you as good as you think you are?
2006-09-21 03:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it sounds like you are heading towards a nervous breakdown if you dont get out now, but your good nature won't let you break up with her because of what you both have shared in the past.
I say follow your gut & dont waste any more time. Break up with her now because you know theres a bigger debt to pay to your karma if you stay with her under false pretenses.
2006-09-21 03:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the first sign she does not trust you. If she doesn't trust you at any time she will always be thinking in the back of her head that you are a scum bag. If she thinks it is true she will believe it no matter what you say. Run Billy Run. Get out before the she finds a kitchen knife.
2006-09-21 03:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Chivalry77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you've just found your deal breaker... You said you can do much better, so go out and do much better!
Ooops, sorry, I'm a chick. Was I not supposed to answer?
2006-09-21 03:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by yellow! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy with the relationship and where it's going, you need to move on. My breaking point is one of thwo things, if she lies to me or cheats on me, she's gone. Also if I don't feel the relationship is going anywhere I break it off. I don't wanna be with someone if I don't feel a chemistry.
2006-09-21 03:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah..you are not married thank goodness, can you imagine that?
yep time to drop her. YOu don't want a woman is insecure and needy, there is soemthing wrong there. go out there and get a woman who is comfortable with herself and open minded.
2006-09-21 03:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't trust you it may be something that's happened to her in the past, but if you've gave her no reason to not trust you and if you've been dating 4 a while say sumthing to her and if it still happens if you really luv her or nething, stay w/ her but if not leave her b4 she gets even more attatched. it'll save her more heartbreak in the long run.
2006-09-21 03:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems
like you are into a toxic relation so if you dont get along now the future is not gonna be better so you better think about split with her
2006-09-21 03:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋