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im 13 im in 8th grade. i always hear "he likes you" about like a gagillion guys and they always stare at me but they never talk to me. i am very pretty (not trying to be vein, i have wavy dark blonde hair and big dark eyes and supposedly a hot body) so i suppose its not a joke or anything. loads of my friends get asked out except me!!! why do you think this is?

2006-09-21 02:52:11 · 22 answers · asked by Melenie P 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

First, remember that boys your age are still in a bit awkward point of life. Asking a girl "out" is the ultimate in facing rejection. A boy's "manhood" can feel quite fragile at your age, and this is sometimes something they don't want to face.

Second, sometimes the "pretty girl" has a hard time getting asked out. Boys think, "Oh, I'm sure she's already taken" or..."She'll never go out with me."

As a "Daddy" though, I must admit that I would not let my girl go "out" with a boy at 13.

2006-09-21 03:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Robert 5 · 0 0

If what you say is true, you're too intimidating. They figure that you can have your pick of guys, so they assume that you'll turn them down.

Pick a guy that you'd like to ask you out, and start a conversation with him. Talk about something in school, a class, tell him you like the shirt he's wearing - anything. Once he knows that you're willing to talk to him, he'll probably muster the courage to ask you out.

2006-09-21 09:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0 0

Boys don't get it, especially in middle school. Take some initiative, honey. If you like them, ask them out. Do you like these guys? It's not a crime to ask a guy out, and quite honestly, a lot of them feel like it's less pressure on them. Either they're shy or they're intimidated. If you're as beautiful as you say you are, you may scare them. They may think that they're not good enough and that you'd never go out with them. Ask them. It's a lot easier than sitting around and waiting...

2006-09-21 09:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by missesmoo236 2 · 0 0

ok you are 13, and they are young all this stuff is new to you and them, if you are pretty it is harder for a boy to come over and say so because possibly he is shy and you intimedate him. goto them and let them know that you like them two, break the ice with a smile or hanging out with him. invite him places with your friends. Sometimes you have to make him see you lol cause boys are a little stupid when it comes to girls. but dont get to wierded out by all this you are still young and have plunty of time for boys. But good luck.

2006-09-21 09:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because you're full of yourself. Guys hate a girl that thinks she's all that. Why would a guy wanna date someone who thinks "I'm very pretty, look at my hair and eyes. I have a hot body blah, blah blah,"
Guys don't want a girl that's so into herself

2006-09-21 09:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 2 0

it will always be like that, guys are afraid of rejection. I'm 40 and they still do the same. when your older [you dont need a B/F at 13, enjoy your teen years] go after what you want.

2006-09-21 10:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0 0

Maybe you act stuck-up? At 13, why would you say you have a hot body? You're 13!!

2006-09-21 09:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by yellow! 2 · 3 0

probably cause most of us guys at that age have it set in our mind that we can get girls who are really pretty and it is usually true and if you can go for say an ugly girl who you know would say yes why take your chances with a girl whos really pretty and will probably reject you really harshly when i was in middle school probably 4 years ago i remember asking a really pretty girl out and she told all her girlfriends and i became the laughing stalk of the school so yeah you can understand why most of them arent asking you out reassure them find out if they really like you

2006-09-21 09:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by mathborg3691 2 · 0 0

they probably think you will not go out them because you are so pretty. If you know one of them likes you, you make the move and go talk to them. That will let them know they might have a chance.

2006-09-21 09:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by b_iceman2001 3 · 0 0

Its the same way when you get older im almost 17 and guys still do that theyre so lame lol :)

2006-09-21 09:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by J 3 · 0 0

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