I wanted to court her but everytime we talk she just always stares down and i asked her why is she like that and i told her that i feel uncomforatble with her. She answered that shes just really super shy and she even said sorry hehe she told me that i must not be uncomfortable because she would just be more shy. Where seeing each other everyday and textin. How can i make her talkative cause im running out of questions.
2006-09-21 02:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spend more time with her and she will become more comfortable with you. Then she will start to interact with you more.
2006-09-21 02:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lilel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she stares down because she's insecure about her looks? Why don't you comment on her looks, like her eyes, but don't make it seem like you're only going out with her because of her looks.
I used to be super shy...I would look down especially in front of a guy I really like... I dated a guy who was really nice and warm. I felt comfortable with him as soon as he made me laugh. A good humorous story that the guy experienced that involved him being the victim of a practical joke is good joke to break the ice. This guy also acted silly and goofy and it made me see that he's the type of guy who is confident and doesn't care about making a fool of himself to make me laugh. Laughter can bring people closer.
Let her know that you're a really nice guy, with only good intentions, that you mean no harm and that she doesn't have to open up right away. Don't ask her why she's shy, or why she looks down, etc. As soon as she knows you better and feels comfortable around you, she will come around on her own. No shy person can suddenly be outgoing when someone tells them that they don't have to be shy.
2006-09-21 09:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by pureessence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a great question, and I think I have just the answer(s) for you! First you need to reveal some private things about yourself...embarrassing things. You may think this would be selfish, talking about yourself, but believe me, it's what she wants to hear. She's just too shy to ask you about yourself. While you're revealing your deep inner truths and life stories, make fun of yourself...make jokes about the things that are personal to you. This will show vulnerability in you, and THAT will draw her out GUARANTEED. Be nice, be chivalrous, and be patient. Once she starts to relax, the flood gates will open before you know it. Good Luck!
2006-09-21 09:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by Joe & Amy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
awhhhh!!!!! well she will open up to you and be more comfortable around you when she gets to know you better. Im like that i dont talk much to the people i barely know and i dont even say much to them and im really shy but when i feel comfortable around that person then i will open up more and be more talkative..it just takes time i guess
and if you wanna make her laugh then tell her something funny..i usually laugh when something is funny but sometimes i dont because i feel awkward towards them so i just stay quiet
2006-09-21 16:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by channingtatumissexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...
I used to be really shy untill i didn't care anymore what people think. Try to make her more comfortable with you and with who you hang out with.
Don't take the advice of the first dude, that is so wrong! And if she is shy, she will NOT like that!!!
2006-09-21 09:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by iMegan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
make sure that you can make her confortable. always keep the convo going so that she can relax. She will catch on to know she doesnt have to hide from you .
Thats really nice that you are making the effort . If you really like her ,dont give up on her and she will break out of her shell
2006-09-21 09:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm ... i cant say more but maybe she scare of you? or she never being a friend to a guy before? try to find out her history on that and find whatever hobby or interest that she like the most and you try to do it together with her and hopefully by that she can slowly be talkative as you want. but please do it step by step cause she might think you try to fool her. ok ! good luck!!!
2006-09-21 09:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Q ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
arrange for a celebrity-style photoshoot with you and her as a couple, surrounded by hundreds of perverted photographers.
2006-09-21 09:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show up with that hat on.
2006-09-21 09:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just shut up and act: flowers, soft touches, take her hand in yours, smile...
2006-09-21 09:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋