An ex.bf my parents hate but i still love i have been trying and not succeeding in getting over my ex. bf we broke up in late april early may. I have tried dating other people but the feelings just not there i miss my ex. bf and he as my first bf and everything else. I cant help but want him back because i miss him so. Whats worse is we now go too the same college.
2006-09-21 02:20:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When my parent bring him up it really hurts and no i cant talk to them about it. I feel so depressed and sad all the time.
2006-09-21 02:21:26 · update #1
Seeing things will triger of memories and make me want to cry.
2006-09-21 02:22:39 · update #2
We both had a hard time dealing with my pregnancy he left twice and two weeks after last break up i miscarried at 5 months.
2006-09-21 02:24:11 · update #3
Tried being friends after but his new gf hated me for some reason
2006-09-21 02:26:28 · update #4
we dont talk anymore and i was getting mixed messages when his gf as around and then hen she was not.
2006-09-21 02:28:10 · update #5
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2006-09-21 02:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex-boyfriend is no longer interested in you...than I am afraid that you really just need to accept it. Going to the same school will make this a bit more difficult, but also makes it a whole lot more important, too.
In life, you will inevitably enjoy many relationships with girlfriends, boyfriends, and even just work or school colleagues and associates. These people will come and go in your life, but each of them will help teach you something about yourself and what you want and need in your life.
What is important for you is to examine yourself and discover why you "love" him so much. First write down what you want in a guy, and then write down what you liked about your ex, as well as what you did not like (also do this for each of your frinds and other dates, as well). Be honest with yourself. And then put that information to good use and find someone new.
I know that it may not be easy, but you can do it. The best thing that you can do for yourself is to move on.
2006-09-21 09:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Doctor Happy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shakespeare said it best, Jennifer, when he asked if it was better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Leaving someone is always very painful and somtimes it takes a long long time to be able to go on with your life with any kind of enthusiasm. I can't tell you how to get over losing your boyfriend, but I can tell you that you will. Maybe you'll meet someone special, or maybe you'll just eventually forget about huring so badly. I'm probably quite a bit older than you, but I used to comfort myself in these situations by telling myself that if it was meant to be it will be, if not, then nothing I can say or do will change things. You just have to keep going. It helps if you can keep your sense of humor :-)
Sorry this is nothing profound or deep, but it's what I've learned over some 50 years. Good luck!!
2006-09-21 09:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by springvalleykid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all i can say is going to take time. No one can make you stop thinking or loving him. You have to work that out for yourself. Try doing other things that you like to get your mind of it. I know its hard girl hang in there. Try and focus on school right now and for you..Men will always be there honey trust me.
2006-09-21 09:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to get over a personal love as this, i hate to say but their are ex's i still have feelings for, but know in my heart we cannot turn back the clock. Either give it time or forget everyone thoughts and get him back.
2006-09-21 09:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you talked to him about this??? Call him up and see if you'll can't patch things up! What would it hurt? All he can say is NO and if he does says no then you just need to move on. You are young and trust me, you will meet all kinds of nice young men in college, i hope!! Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 09:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by VICTORIA L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time is all you need. He is your first BF and he will probably always be special, eventually you will move on when the right person comes along.
2006-09-21 09:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, only time will help this. You will see, it will start getting better sooner or later. Just remember that you broke up for a reason...
2006-09-21 09:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by misscongeniality711 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you see him on campus go talk to him about ur feelings.....tell him how you only care about him but u don't want to disrespect his parents. Just tell him u only want to be with him and then ask him what his feelings are.
2006-09-21 09:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by eclipseracer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
time will pass and you will find so else you can love even more.don t think about him so much,date others and try to be always occupied with sth,so that u don t think so much.
good luck!
2006-09-21 09:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by nanuk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋