yesterday afternoon..I met my boyfriend for lunch at his work..which is about 30 minutes from our house. In the past I have usually gotten there about 11:55 or so..and he usually never got out there until 12:03 or so. Well, I got there about 12:00 and I noticed that there was a silver mustang just like his about 2 cars in front of me. Hmm...he was supposed to be at work, because he HARDLY ever leaves early. So, Im getting suspicious. We pull into the parking lot and I park my car, and get in his and ask him "Why arent you at work??!!" He said that he left a little early and was going to look for me to see if maybe he could catch me before I drove all the way down to his office. Well, I was kinda suspicious still, but I let it go. Well, last night something hit me..and I asked him, "How did you know that I was coming from that direction??" :) He said that it was just a lucky guess...What do ya'll think...you think he's up to no good with someone else..???
2006-09-21 02:08:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why automatically assume he's cheating on you? Is this something that's come up in the past with him? Maybe he's telling the truth, maybe he was out shopping for you, there are lots of things he could have been doing.
2006-09-21 02:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by simplyrelaxinginblvl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that sounds kinda off key there . Buti would question him head on what is going on . If you think that he is cheating on you. Just ask . If this incident matches other wierd coincidents that you have noticed abuot him , then maybe consider it . BUt not to put any doubt in your head , check out your facts first before you jump to any conclusions.
Good Luck , cause I know this situation isnt easy
2006-09-21 02:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I would say he is up to no good with someone else, but he is definately hiding something. Maybe another lunch date, maybe gambling. I'd be suspicious and question things deeper and try to catch him again.
2006-09-21 02:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this personally, but it seems to me that you're jumping to some awfully big conclusions based on very little evidence. He just came looking for you- and if you think so little of your man that he'd do something like that to you (unless of course he has a past history), why go off the deep end?
:)
2006-09-21 02:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by runninggirl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if you wanted to surprise him at any time and he saw you some where else like shopping mall or some thing buying male thing as present for him(while it is not his birthday or any special day between you), would he trust you and belive you??? or be suspecting as you did?
do not start with thinking not well about your life partner, this opens the hill doors in your relation with him...
2006-09-21 02:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by a.m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I HOPE he was out looking for a new girl, 'cuz you're 'way too suspicious.
2006-09-21 02:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by gabluesmanxlt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im thinkin with a paranoid chick like you. I would defitnately be hooking up with someone else. but to answer your question.yes he is cheating on you and it is probably with someone he works with.
2006-09-21 02:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should dump such a suspicious slitch
2006-09-21 02:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Chief BaggageSmasher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not pass judgement on one incident ok. Forget it or it might cloud your relationship....he may be right
2006-09-21 02:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by kydexa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. If it happens again he's definitely up to something.
2006-09-21 02:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by sillysammi2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋