I've been seeing a guy for about 2 1/2 months, we're not 'boyfriend/girlfriend' because we've both came out of serious relationships and are afraid to be hurt.. I don't really care either way on the titles.
Well he's a strange duck and honestly doesn't like to hang out with more than one person at a time, when he's with me he likes it to be just me, his best friend just his best friend ect.. (guess he likes quality time) so if i call and he's with his best friend he either will keep it very short and vague or he wont answer and he'll call me later - usually call me later. though he doesnt call if he gets home really late.
My problem with this is I've been cheated on a lot and it makes me feel nervous, or that he's avoiding me (which i know isn't true).
Is it too early to ask him to stop doing this with me? To answer then or just send me a text saying he's busy and will call later/tomorrow?
We're in our early 20's and i refuse to spy on him as someone else suggested.
2006-09-21 02:07:59 · 6 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I can totally relate to him..it's too damn confusing to try and talk to two differnt people..when I'm with my best freind I'm in "freind" mode, and when I'm talking to my girl I'm in "boyfriend" mode.
2006-09-21 02:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to take a hike!. If he isn't into you.. he isn't into you. And when you call and he is quick and short with you.. that is a sign.. he is putting you last. And you never come last!! If he really wanted to be with you, especially this early in the relationship....he would NOT cut you short, or tell you he is out late and cant' call.. DON"T take his crap!! Find someone who will cherish the ground you walk on.. especially just 2 months in the relationship.. :????? you can do better !!!!
2006-09-21 09:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was this way when you met him...LEAVE IT ALONE!! You should NOT try to change people. Personally when I am spending time with someone I think its rude to have conversations on the phone with someone else UNLESS its an emergency. If you 2 aren't mentally ready to be in a new relationship withoug bringing in baggage from a previous relationship ....you shouldn't be dating at all.
2006-09-21 09:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too early in a relationship to communicate??? Sit down with him and tell him how you feel. With both of you coming out of long term relationships, he is more likely to understand your position. Give the guy a little credit.....
2006-09-21 09:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's too late gradma
2006-09-21 09:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-21 09:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋