ok on my last ? I asked about letting my ex and his g/f back in my daughters life......1) HE HAS TAKEN IT ON HIS OWN FREE WILL TO NOT BE AROUND FOR THE LAST 5 MONTHS 2) It has nothing to do with him cheating on me with her because I like her she is good with my baby........3)but I do not see where it is right for her to see her and buy gifts when her dad has no relationship with her so with this being said WHAT SHOULD i DO LET HER BY THE GIFT AND HAVE HER TRYING TO PUSH HIM IN HER LIFE OR JUST LEAVE IT ALONE???????? Please HELP
2006-09-21 01:38:30 · 6 answers · asked by thunder_rainclouds 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
but the new g/f did come to me .......... dad did not ????what do I do about that?
2006-09-21 01:44:44 · update #1
...Dad's a deadbeat...and I think that once the girlfriend loses her interest in the Dad, she'll be long gone. Politely decline any gifts and move on. There's more to life than being the object of someone's misdirected agenda--protect your child. She doesn't need to witness this. Best wishes.
2006-09-21 01:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push the baby on him but allow her in your life. You never know - a great friendship could form from it and your daUGHTER AND HER Father's relationship could benefit.
(sorry, my 2 year old was helping me type)
2006-09-21 09:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the gf wants to buy your kid gifts...let her. If the dad doesnt want to be in the kids life...his loss.
2006-09-21 08:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by j3572h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone, dont push the baby on him, he will resent her, let him come to you , then say no..
2006-09-21 08:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave alone.
2006-09-21 08:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Chuong Seng Ly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULDN'T. ASK THEM IF THEY WANT TO SEE YOUR CHILD.LET THEM CALL YOU. NEVER SET YOUR CHILD UP FOR REJECTION.
2006-09-21 08:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by dustikennedy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋