My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 weeks, and neither of us are virgins, how long should we wait to initaiate sex? I really love him so i dont want to screw things up. You're going to say "when you are both ready" But its driving me crazy... anybody have a timeframe opinion?
2006-09-21 01:24:36 · 23 answers · asked by martin_jonica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
5 weeks is good. I thinks its been long enough
2006-09-21 01:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Made! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
5 weeks is still too soon. The thing is, most of us women don't understand but when men have gotten it so soon. After a while, they lose interest or become disrespectful because he thinks that every other guy that you had dated, you gave it up easily.
Enjoy the relationship some more. It will happen when the time is right but don't just focus on it.. Go out and enjoy each other somemore.
2006-09-21 08:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both have been waiting 5 weeks, what's the reason? Are you both serious at setting a strong emotional foundation before the sex complicates things? Then, no hurry. You will prob start aby the 8th week.
2006-09-21 08:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him and he truly loves you, then you guys will be together for a long time. Hopefully the rest of your life. So take your time.
If he gets frustrated and wants to pressure you or leave you, he doesn't love you and is not worth your body.
You cannot go wrong by waiting. The right relationship will get stronger by waiting. The wrong will get weaker by waiting. Give it plenty of time to see how he responds and how the relationship goes.
Trust me, you don't want to waist your body on somebody that you are not going to stay with.
2006-09-21 09:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by dogpreacher@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no timeframe option. When you both feel that you want to take the relationship to the next level, that is the time
Do understand that sex will change the dynamic of the relationship
2006-09-21 08:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 weeks sure sounds like a short time to fall in love but oh well if you do love him the longer you wait the better its gonna be. dont plan it though when the time is right youll both know... good luck..be safe... and HAVE FUN!!!
2006-09-21 08:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by southern_beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-21 08:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by Onkar S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You decide on it. It's your life. Your relationship. Do whatever you want with it, but confirm with him first.
For all you know, he's one of the 'save the best for last' guys.
If you really love him, then you won't mind the wait.
2006-09-21 08:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by zack_falcon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 weeks sounds like a good number.but don't put to much weight into your first sexual ecounter....guarentee it will be over quick, awkward and clumsy. just relax and focus on a good relationship, sex is just one part of a satisfying relationship.
2006-09-21 08:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when the time is right. Five weeks is really a short period of time . Don't rush things.
2006-09-21 08:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋