If I go to London.... he will do stupid stuff like start drinking, cutting his hand, smoking, and all because of me!!!!! I feel like just commiting a suicide!!!
2006-09-21 01:02:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no people do things because of themselves and not because of others
2006-09-21 01:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever this person is, you can't blame yourself for what he is doing, don't kill yourself. Even if you did lead him in this direction, he could have said no, so just go to london, and when you get back, get your friend some help.
2006-09-21 08:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie this is really unhealthy, you need to finish it and move on. I know it maybe hard but you shouldnt have to feel like this, you have to think about yourself and what you want., you cant live your life by others. Take Care
2006-09-21 08:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a controlling jerk to me.Dump him.It is Not you that is doing it to him.He is doing it to control you.By the way you sound it is working very well.
Go to London and have fun ,you need it..
2006-09-21 08:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get out of that relationship....anyone who holds you hostage to his pain is not your friend or anyone who loves you. Dont make his pain yours go to London and give yourself time to heal and find out you are a beautiful perosn.
2006-09-21 08:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by AlabamaGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay cool but you did not mention who is he, anyway
2006-09-21 08:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh that's not the way
2006-09-21 08:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell... NO.... Take him with you.
2006-09-21 08:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋