Me and this guy were friends and then started to go out, but now I relise that I like him more as a friend than a boyfriend. He's really a nice guy and I don't want to hurt his feelings but just can't go on with relationship.
2006-09-21 00:48:32 · 18 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you can do it the simple way. tell him in a nice way.
2006-09-21 00:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by antigone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him exactly that! Say, "I really like you but I'd rather be your friend than a girlfriend, at this time." You should keep your options open because sometimes that boy who is a friend starts to look like something more down the road. I have several guy friends and that's all it is. 2 of them, I have dated in the past. One was years ago and he wasn't ready for a 1:1 relationship but now he wants one (except I have someone else). The other is very nice but there's no chemistry at all. It's OK to have a guy as JUST a friend.
2006-09-21 00:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lioness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
steph,u answerd my question by saying u r seeing jealous guy and if i know any solution.well, i dont, thats the fing, if u r getting from him just evil eye, thats ok, i used to get that as well,than i got shouting, being held under my neck,than fists.... but i am emotionaly week, i still love him and trying to find solution for his horrible problem.we tried therapy, but nothing seems to help, i guess becouse he is not opened enough.if u r with that guy just for little while,and it is not serious, get rid of him,till u can, becouse when u fall in love so deeply,like me, there is no way out, unless u r strong.good luck
2006-09-21 01:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is almost stealing, but I do so in admiration.
The answers by "nocrazygirl" and "Lioness" really made sense and I'd combine them as my answer.
Is there a way to give 'em 5 points each?
And share my 2 out to them too
2006-09-21 00:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by dandigijin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am willing to bet things will change big time for you when you tell him... but be honest if he truly is a good guy then be honest and very careful how you choose your words.best of luck
2006-09-21 00:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain that to him and see what he says you wouldnt want to stay with him for a long period of time for him to find out you don't love him and then he would be hurt worse
2006-09-21 00:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him exactelly the way you tell us. he is nice!! so, tell him. you did not know first! so, tell him. you still like him probably, but realized he's more a friend than someone you can fall in love with.. it's hard.. but tell him. be honest. and keep him as a friend. good luck!
2006-09-21 00:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by india18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth, it hurts but is worth it than carrying on lying and later he think you just used him and he wouldnt be your friend still. so best of all tell him fave to face and honest !
2006-09-21 00:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way honey you are just going to have to tell him ....i know its hard but he will be better off.
2006-09-21 00:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him, but just as you as well as him one can not force love not friendship.
each person must do what will make them happy. despite what other think or want.
always be true to yourself
2006-09-21 00:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him deserves someone better than you that you don't think you are good enough for him
2006-09-21 00:52:57 · answer #11 · answered by Henry W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋