and everything you were not hoping would happen occurs? whereas if you think something negative will happen, something great occurs instead?
2006-09-21 00:40:32 · 11 answers · asked by jazzy_chica85 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
what ur probably talkin
about is expectation,if u hav too many
it woud just seem negativ since not all of'em
are gonna happen
2006-09-21 01:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by heartofglass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In many way's yes.It is very weird for that because our brain's are saying smile,but you end up giving cheek or pulling a bad face.Ive got a disorder my brain functions properly,but when im about to do something great i end up doing the opposite and turn thing's upside down which wasnt planned.If you think about something you didnt expect to do like say you dont want to go to a funeral and see your cousin's you end up going forced by parent's and everything turn's out great and awesome.everyone has the same symptom's some may not.
2006-09-21 08:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I got rid of the negative relationships and the negative behavior and I started on a positive track, my life turned around for the better and I was not constantly hammered with problems.
2006-09-21 10:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the thing is not to get your hopes up only to have them crushed. For me the worst was when i thought my health was getting better when it crashed and i had 5 serious conditions (and i'm only 19!) ... which prevented me at one stage from using my hands and legs. I was convinced everyone was colluding against me - i was sure that every time i felt a little bit better that the world would conspire against me and crush me.
I was convinced there was somesort of equilibrium in the world... like things could only ever get so good and that we always get caught!
i guess in the end i just started to flow with what happened and it started to get better. sometimes you just need to stop thinking so much! (i can preach this but cannot do it....)!
2006-09-21 07:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u start being positive it means u want things around u to be useful and advantageous.. u r more optimistic.. If the opposite happens it means u r yet to be one...
2006-09-21 07:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Social animal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, many times... but actually it really depends on how you see things... may it be bad or good, as long as you view it in a positive manner, it will still turn out positive!
2006-09-21 07:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Nerai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every day of my life, but the part of thinking negative....same thing. so i just try to be a bump on a log and not to think about things, then i dont get disappointed.
2006-09-21 08:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by daddysboicub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you expect the worst, you'll never be disappointed.
2006-09-21 07:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea all the time especially at vasity
2006-09-21 07:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think it is the overconfidence that does it.
2006-09-21 08:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by TheDementedMule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋