I have a personal problem with some one, i cant go into detail, but ive gotta talk to him cuz i know how he is about something and its really bogging him down, and so he needs me to talk to. BUT, things get deeper; I have that same thing, and its just right for him [to talk to]. I need to get through to him about his emotions but I need to get through to him about mine. Now, you think... why is that? What do we have in common. Now, this is where its critical... Thats exacly what im after. Cuz i know... Its sumthing about......us. What, why? Thats what im so ever desperietly needing to talk about. But time divides us.
(Sorry dudes, i (as i said) cant go into any detail here bout this.)
But tell me what youse think bout that. Fait??
Its just like walking a tight rope, you cant go all out, but you have to let things fall into place and adjust them yourself and play the game thats so fragile its just so hard not to tip it.
2006-09-21 00:17:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I agree with the rest of these people, I don't quite get what it is that you are asking. Not being qualified, I probably shouldn't say this. But I will anyway, if you are trying to form a special relationship with this other person, and you find it difficult to approach out of fear of possible rejection, don't be! Because either he will say yes, or he will say no. If he does say no, then you can put your fears to rest. Because you wouldn't have had a chance anyway. But think positive! You never know. He very well could say yes. He may be waiting for you to ask, right? So, go ahead, ask him.
2006-09-23 16:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by knownothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, approach him slowly. Take things a little bit at a time. If the situation is tricky but time is a factor, take baby steps. The longer you wait the more distance there will be and it might get to the point where you can not fix it. Also don't explain everything to him but do it a little bit at a time to where you don't over whelm each other. Just make sure you do this with all the love and care you can
2006-09-21 08:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Just another day 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can help and do no harm- step in gently- if you don't you will never know. Time divides you? or is it distance? U say you have a personal problem with him-so I suppose you know him well-then maybe he will be receptive- take care- D
2006-09-21 07:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can never get help with a question like this that is so unclear that no one knows what to say to you but obviously the problem is bigger within you I think your afraid to face it head on!
2006-09-21 07:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by kiss 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My friend.......you need to step back and read this mess.....then you'll understand why you're not going to get much help. At first I thought it was me, I read it again, or tried to, I seen it wasn't me, I'm sorry, this makes absolutely no sense. Why don't you sit down, take your time, try again, we'll all be more than happy to answer your question. GOOD LUCK..........LATER
2006-09-21 07:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by veteranpainter 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i hope u don't talk to him like you tried to get your invasive question answered there is not enough information to give u a sensible answer . just do the best you can and hopefully u don't confuse him like your question confused me lol
honesty is the best policies
2006-09-21 07:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by laurascreationssaltandclay 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't really understand your question .. but approach him as you would like to be approached ...
2006-09-21 07:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pal... your question has got tooo many him and me and it just goes round and round.... i know you feel like talking bout it but please be clear mate.....
take care :)
2006-09-21 07:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by maanuv B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm really confused. and what exactly is your question? you should clarify it i think.
2006-09-21 07:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by antigone 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋