I had a relationship with a lady with a little boy, at first I found it hard because I wanted more time alone with the lady. But the relationship grow and I was in love with her and found alot of time for the little guy. I call him my son now, and been happily married to her for 12 years. We have three children now, and I dont see him different in any way. They are equal, and would do anything for him as I would for the other kids.
Yes, it is hard at first, but if the right guy comes along for you, it will all be good. My best mate also married a lady with a child from a previous relationship.
I wish you all the best.
2006-09-21 00:08:53
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answer #1
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answered by Eaglesrule 1
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Not me. Not at all. Unless those single mothers have kids who are also single mothers.
2006-09-21 07:40:00
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answer #2
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answered by quantumview 5
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Yes. Not all men are, but many men do not want the extra responsibility of a child that is not their own.
2006-09-21 06:40:09
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answered by dante_cubit_3000 4
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If the Mum is just after "Mr Mom" and if the Father is some bogan who is going to be pain, then definatly.
But other than that, not at all.
2006-09-21 09:09:02
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answered by questionsfilm 2
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Not me.. i don't kno why.. but ses is always a lot better for me with women who have had kids. I'm a really big guy though.
2006-09-21 06:42:00
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answer #5
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answered by Gonzo 1
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absolutly not. Usually makes them more mature. More than men and I'm a man
2006-09-21 06:57:22
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answered by jepa8196 4
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Not at all. I am raising 2 boys
2006-09-21 06:44:32
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answered by Sarcastic Sid 4
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Yes! I hate kids, and I would never date a woman that had them (unless it was just a booty call).
2006-09-21 06:46:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Depends on the man.
2006-09-21 06:49:05
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answered by kayef57 5
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For me, the answer is no. For a majority of my friends, it's yes.
2006-09-21 06:40:09
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answered by DrMikeonCall 4
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