How do you know if you're in love? Or if it's in lust?
2006-09-20 23:22:17 · 15 answers · asked by Qusan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOVE: when your heart starts beating fast and you get nervous around the person. You like every bit about him/her, in and out...not about the looks but about the person likes/dislikes/etc.
LUST: when your body starts feeling weird and your mind can't take off of the person body instead of personality or person him/herself. you feel like having sex ONLY instead of having (real) love life...
Lusty people don't get anything but babies...Love always comes first...
if lust is first, babies come next and denial comes last...no love is there at all
:) :) :) :) :)
2006-09-20 23:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Answers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lust comes first, that's the stage when you can't stop thinking about them and you just wanna jump on them and be with them all the time. Love comes later, usually takes at least 6 months, when you start to be interested in them as a person, when you want to do things for them to make them happy, when you start thinking long term, when you feel comfortable around them e.g. you're willing to let them see you without make up.
2006-09-21 06:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by MJstar99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's love when you can't keep him out of your mind even without the lovey dovey touches and all. Lust when you get sweaty and panting when you think of him and the likes. You can't forget the kiss, the touch etc and you want more more more. In love, those come second.
2006-09-21 06:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not sure then your not . . . but time is always a good test. if you still love them after a long period of time, having had problems or not seen them for a while then it shows that your feelings run deeper than lust
2006-09-21 06:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust love whats the differents
2006-09-21 06:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
for me, i know that it is love when i want to have children with him cos i see him as the father of my children. For guys that i lust after, i don;t even want to have any children with him. I just want to jump into the sack with him and that's it!
2006-09-21 06:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man in the boat starts putting on weight.
2006-09-21 06:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by something'srotten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have some part of your life you you want to share with a guy, and making him happy is part of the plan.
2006-09-21 06:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a funny feeling deep down in the cockels of you heart.
2006-09-21 06:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by zippythewondermutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i want to spend most of my time with her and want to see than u r in love.........
2006-09-21 06:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋