How do i tell my best friend that his partner is cheating on him?

Question

I recently found out that my best friends partner is cheating on him. should i tell him? If i do whats the best way to do it:? Help!!!!

Answer 1

Hello!! :o) TALK to his partner FIRST and give HER [Him?] the opportunity to confess to your best friend. IF she/he refuses to do that - THEN [and only then] tell your best friend. But do so very VERY delicately. [And only if you're 100%, absolutely sure that the partner has been cheating] You will be on thin ice so you will want to make sure that your friend is aware of how awkward you feel about even saying anything. And never EVER discuss this with anyone. Good luck. Craig!! :o)

Answer 2

Oh, this is a tough one. Either I think you should talk to the partner first, and let her know that s/he should be the one to confess to the cheating on him. Or get evidence and tell your best friend. Best friends shouldn't keep any secrets.

Answer 3

The words *rock* & *hard place* come to mind.

Seems to me that guilt of causing upset is at the route of your dilema

A lateral option is to only make it known to your cuckolded friend's *partner* that you know whats going on. Let her/them both sort it out then in thier own way.

It is doubtful that you will therefore get involved further or feel any guilt, as you have at least done something to try and resolve your concern.

In any event. I think you show a great deal of sensitivity in your Question.

PS I assume that your friend is Hetero. The above, of course would still apply to a Gay relationship

Answer 4

Anonymous email maybe. But its never a good idea to get involved in other peoples relationships, Friends or family as than you take on the responsibly of It working out or not.
As a best Friend you have to say nothing and let him find out in his own way and when he tells you, fain surprise.

Answer 5

u should tell him straight away as he is your best friend + if it was the other way about then he would tell you.....if you dont tell him then he aint going 2 value you as a friend much longer if he finds out you know.....you could say 2 his partner that you know she's cheating + get her 2 admit 2 him or make sure u know for sure she is cheating then just tell your mate you need to meet up with him + just say u know she's cheating + you didnt know what way to tell him as he's your mate + you didnt want to hurt him, but you had to tell him.

good luck
x.niks.x

Answer 6

If you are absolutely sure that his partner is infact cheating, and I do mean without any doubt at all then you do need to just come right out and tell your friend as soon as possible.

Answer 7

Outright. Make sure that you're right though and you can supply supporting evidence (Within reason).

Be prepared never to speak to the Partner again, and even your relationship with the bloke might be a bit fraut for a while. Also be prepared for people to doubt you motive.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Definitely YES!
If you are a true friend and you care about your friend, then you should absolutely tell him.
Ask him how is his relationship with his gf going? If they have any problems, etc. Just to get the conversation started! Then tell him what you know. Be supportive and show him that you will be there for him to get over this bad situation!

Answer 10

well I guess the best way to approach it is putting yourself in his shoes - what way would you think best to be told?
Probably take him somewhere private bearing in mind that his reaction may not be pretty - break it to him gently, tell him you're telling him because you figured he deserved to know and give him the evidence you have.
Then just be there for him - depending on how long they've been together - he may be very upset.