My bf has cheated as I read his phone over the wkend he wants to meet up for a drink to talk tonight, what would you say? I love him and probably would take him back even though i know im such a push over with him.
2006-09-20 22:40:20 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello!! :o) Are you sure he cheated?! If he did - prepare yourself for the possibility that he wants to say 'good-bye'. But if not - keep in mind that even though it might SEEM NICE to BE NICE - NICE people are often looked upon as door mats. Don't play any head games or do anything like that. But let it be known [If he ends up saying he's sorry and still wants to be in a relationship with you] that your feelings were hurt and that you will not forgive him a second time. AND IF he feels as though it's likely that he will cheat again - that he should let you know so you can end the relationship NOW. 'Push overs' eventually become 'RUN OVERS' - so be polite, fair and strong. Good luck. Craig!! :o)
2006-09-20 23:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off are you SURE he cheated and theres no way you misread the text or something?
Id go meet him and let him know that you know - find out why he did it - have you two been having problems recently?
Is there a deeper reason other than being a prick for him cheating?
Personally I wouldnt take him back - even if I loved him - you can never get that trust back to where it needs to be - but its your decision and only you know the ins and outs.
If you were going through his phone in the first place, I think you two have deeper trust issues than this.
2006-09-20 22:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Come On!, Ask yourself first. WHY WOULD HE DO THAT. Men do not stray for no reason.
You are either not attractive enough or you are not doing everythng you should to please him, either way IT IS YOUR FAULT. Instead of blaming him, why dont you work out how to please him and keep him happy. Remember a happy dog does not stray.
Tone up, make an effort, watch some porno ask him what he wants to do and never say no..and think about how you could satisy him and what you think he would like. Or it will happen with the next guy and the next until you end up in a vicious circle.
2006-09-20 22:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater. if i was you i would tell him it is over. you will find someone else who will treat you with the respect you deserve, and you will love that person as much as you love him or maybe more. or alternativly take him back and get even.
2006-09-20 23:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what to say: you´re in for an absolute nightmare with this fellow, he sounds like a terrible creep.
2006-09-21 10:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You read his phone-shame.
Sounds like there is no trust in your relationship, move on so you and he can find more stable relationships. Don't meet him again.
2006-09-20 23:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by John Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't confronted him with it yet and your already thinking of taking him back? What if he's not sorry? You don't have much self worth do you?
2006-09-20 23:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by yeahbutnobut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have too much respect for yourself to allow him to walk all over you any more!
2006-09-20 22:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by libbyft 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go with the flow find out why he did it, and see if it is worth another try.
good luck xxx
2006-09-20 22:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say, "its ok you cheated on my baby, I don't mind having sex with you after your manhood has been inside of that other girl"
2006-09-20 22:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋