2006-09-20 22:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by sact 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you poor thing you have carried this with you for 3 years please talk to your mum as she is the best person to talk to you never know you might be surprised by her reaction.
2006-09-20 22:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by staffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your loss. A friend of mine is battling breast cancer as we speak. She introduced me to a website: www.carepages.com
It sfor those struggling with cancer, friends, relatives, and those who have suffered a loss. It is a great source for support ( information, chats, bulletins, referrals, your own web page to keep others informed of your progress,etc...)
Perhaps on that site you can find someone in your area that can offer you counseling too. 3 years is a long time to be grieving without being able to discuss it with anyone. I wish you the best.
2006-09-21 07:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by TrueSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone to talk to, is there any other relatives or maybe a stranger you feel confortable talking to about it, when my mum died it really helped talking about my feelings and just going over and over why they left you. I also had councelling which really helped. Now i have been able to move on with my life! If you want to talk to someone i can be that someone!
2006-09-21 05:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by little.lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your doctor who will recommend a therapist or a bereiment councillor their is no need to feel ashamed that you miss some meny people find it hard to come to terms with a great loss but you have to talk to someone if you don't want to go to the doctors you can always try and talk to a close friend or relative other then your mum
2006-09-21 05:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by natl7788 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losing a loved one whatever the circumstances can be devastating...my dad passed with cancer last year and I am having bereavement counselling. You can either go to your GP or try and find your local CRUISE offices as you can self refer there and don;t need to wait for your GP to help...sometimes talking to someone who isn't directly involved helps...how is your mom coping? Maybe she isn't talking to you about it cos she doesn't want to uspet you...try and approach her. Good luck.
2006-09-21 09:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by widow_purple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, i know things are fucked up. But, you desperatly need to unfuck them. YOU've gotta do it. its not gonna fix its self. Talk to somebody; either your friend, councelor [or some dude of the sort], even god. But, youve gotta face the ******* **** thats on your mind... and thats holding you down. You cant let it build up inside of you. ****, three years ago, and this shits still troubeling you. This **** is fucked up. But, we will all face our enemy, so do it- talk to yo mother and get things fixed up. WHY cant you talk to your ******* mother? Answer this, dude. I bet you'll find its NOTHING you cant over come by talk. Motovation of the conscience is an important thing, and not a god dam ******* thing should eva stop you from doing what you want to achieve. Take this ******* senario for instance--you senario. You wanna get things cleared up, get this absolute ******* **** of a ******* crap **** off you ******* mind and talk to you ******* mother. As i just said, not a god dam thing should ever stopp you from achieving what you benaficially (if thats spelt right) want. So dude, dont be fucked with this **** anymore. Make a stand for YOU. Much love
2006-09-21 06:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you can't talk to your mum about it...what is the problem?...Do you know for a fact you can't? You might be surprized and she might be thinking the same thing...You can always ask a counselor at school to direct you to someone for some grief counceling if you cannot deal with this..Your stepdad is always with you..in your heart always.....If you believe in God and Jesus,...you will have the chance to see him again....God Bless
2006-09-21 06:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just lost my husband to cancer 7 months. It is so hard,but know he is still with you,and he is not suffering any more. i tell myself all the time,he suffered for13months. i miss him very much, but knowing he is at peace and not in pain is what helps me. also i go to a counselor,that helps a lot, because you can tell them just how you feel, , when you can't talk to anyone else. also know your Mom is still hurting,talk to her.
2006-09-21 06:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss xxxx If you can't talk to your mum about it then talk it through with a good freind !!! Maybe your mum finds it too hard !!! She must miss him too xx
2006-09-21 05:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you can't talk with your mom, then I suggest getting an appointment with a mental health professional for grievance counseling. It is important to grieve and to find a way to talk about what you are feeling regarding your loved ones.
Please find a counselor if you still can't talk to your mother or close friends to get some support.
2006-09-21 05:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by sugarapple25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak 2 a relative or teacher if u feel u can my dad died 20 yrs ago of cancer.i had a friend i cud talk 2 . it helped. so try gud luck
2006-09-22 05:44:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋