girl is 17yrs old,her bf is 23. he lives in another city.she knows that i love her.prev, i had proposed to many girls.so she thinks that she mght be 1 of them!bt its not.her frnds say tht she is conservative, and wouldnt be frnds with a guy!when i had arranged a meeting to propose her, she didnt come.and sent a message bfre that she is a serious girl, concentrating on her studies, so please leave me alone, and that she finds that i am harrassing her.now, i would never want to hurt her, and would be content even if she remained only a frnd.should i cling on?give a letter in blood to show that i really care?what should i do to get her?i love her immensely and cant forget her. i have paid rs300 for a 28sec vid clip of hers. she has told her frnds to nt giv her no to me.WHAT DO I DO?I WANT HER ONLY AS MY FRND!I DNT ASK FOR ANYTHING ELSE.I AM READY TO ACCEPT ANY CONDITIONS SHE PUTS IN OUR RELATIONSHIP(LIKE LIMITED TIME ETC). PLZ ANSWER(ONLY GENUINE PEOPLE)APARNA.. I LOVE YOU!
2006-09-20 22:10:42 · 19 answers · asked by rishi17del 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see. you love the girlbut love is about understanding and respecting her feelings. If she doesnt like you stay away from her and pay respect to your love if she has a boyfriend, keep out a look if she's having probs with him. Always be at the top of te hill to throw her down a rope, and as she approaches, see her. You will get the pleasure of love you want. Dont let her know you can die for her. Love her and dont let her be unhappy. That's love
2006-09-20 22:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by vishal_willpower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your girlfriend (gf) is right.She is too young to make a love relationship.She is better to focus her effort for her study for a bright future life.How old are you? Are you independent from your parents.If you have earned your own living with a good income you must give her chance to her study and make only a common friendship with you.After 6 years of common relationship and she is 23 years old then you can make a love relationship with her.If in your opinion it is too long time for waiting,you should search other gf.There are so many nice or beauty and mature girls in this earth.You select as you like and leave her alone peacefully.
2006-09-20 22:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come on the girl is obviously getting annoyed give her some space. Be in the background don't force yourself on her if she wants to talk to you then make yourself available otherwise at the moment you are becoming a serious nuisance and a girl hates that. She is trying to tell you that without overally hurting your feelings.
2006-09-20 22:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by svt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey man chill.....move on...dont just keep thinking bout her when she doesnt give a damn bout u....u deserve better may be...thats why destiny is clearly telling u that something better is going to come ur way and aparna is not the one.....by makin aparna dislike u...every cloud has a silver lining remember...al the best
2006-09-20 23:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by sugar n spice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, As you say she seems confused. Right now just be a friend and support her to choose what she want to do with the 2 of them.Help her to get clear whom she likes and wants to continue with the relationship. once she is sure, she is not interested in both of them then you may think of proposing to her. Till then wait and confuse her further.
2016-03-27 00:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont harm yourself, try to talk to her and if that is not possible leave her...... that may be hard in the begining, try to find a girl who loves you and the most important you love her.. hundreds of girls will come for you only if you dont harm yourself.
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Best Of Luck.
2006-09-21 06:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by arshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be obnoxious or overbearing. Sometimes being too persistent can have the opposite effect. Let things take their own course. Let her know you really care for her.
2006-09-20 22:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Raj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT IS BETTER TO MOVE OUT OF HER WAY you cannot convience hertobecopme your gf and if you become her freind u would never forget her your feelingswould not change and it will only hurt you so it is better to leave her alone
2006-09-20 22:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by riti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She already has a bf.Dont bother her. Look out for another girl.Best of luck.It is not good to screw somebody else's happiness for one's selfish reasons.
2006-09-20 23:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple..this girl is already taken, and you can not MAKE someone like/love you. Stop wasting your time on this girl and find one that is single....there are plenty of them out there!
2006-09-20 22:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋