ok try to put yourself in this situation please....
you broke up with your ex-gf because you thought she was a lot of pressure on you at that particular moment in your life plus you have a lot of self-issues and insecurities to fix and you told the girl you won't love anyone else and you'll come back when you're ok.
after a year, you came back and realized what a wrong decision you did and that you really love the girl very much, and wanted to start over again with the girl. but the girl suffered a lot in that year, his father had a second family revealed and she was diagnosed of possible breast cancer, and she really lost all the trust on you and is running away from you and doesn't even want to be friends with you.. when one day you asked her why she's doing all this running away.. she just said to you that you will still find another girl and you're just confused and you'll just hurt her again.. she told you to look for someone else and she'll close the door for you..
2006-09-20 22:07:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and currently she's doing everything not to see you.. she's not replying to your messages and etc.. so if you are this guy what would you do?
note: the girl had told you she still loves you but said that it doesn't matter because she won't risk with you anymore.
2006-09-20 22:09:07 · update #1
If you love her, you have to do what is best for her!
2006-09-20 22:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I loved her, I wouldn't let it go. I would do something crazy romantic to Win her back, aka, ride up to her door on a horse, sweep down and pick her up in a hot air balloon. I guess more than that I would really make her listen to me and make her believe that I have changed. If you don't wanna believe this guy has changed then don't, but if you feel something at ALL for him I believe you should give him another chance. And I'm not just saying love, but if you feel a bit of a spark, a bit of that fire that you guys once Had...Then go for it.....
2006-09-20 22:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Don't stop! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slight area however open conversation for either one of us to think the predicament out. Different day exclusive instances exclusive process. Keep on loving her ample to fell what she goes via so I do not positioned any further pressure on her that's already there. She is lovely to me I would not wish to make her irritated with hate and contempt in the direction of me. It is elaborate so I need to take it sluggish due to the fact that good day she took it sluggish whilst I was once determining my stuff for that 12 months. I do not wish too however need to depart it as much as the Mr. historical and complicated FATE.
2016-08-21 07:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slight area but open verbal exchange for each of us to believe the main issue out. One of a kind day special situations distinct approach. Maintain on loving her adequate to fell what she goes through so i do not put any further stress on her that's already there. She is lovely to me i wouldn't wish to make her indignant with hate and contempt in the direction of me. It is tricky so I need to take it sluggish considering that good day she took it sluggish whilst I used to be figuring out my stuff for that yr. I do not want too however ought to depart it as much as the Mr. Historical and confusing fate.
2016-08-09 14:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by calvani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common area yet open communication for the two one human beings to sense the placement out. diverse day diverse circumstances diverse attitude. shop on loving her adequate to fell what she is going by so i do no longer positioned from now on rigidity on her it is already there. She is captivating to me i does no longer intend to make her indignant with hate and contempt in direction of me. it extremely is perplexing so i could desire to take it slow simply by fact howdy she took it slow mutually as i replaced into determining my stuff for that 12 months. i do no longer prefer too yet could desire to bypass away it as much as the Mr. old and perplexing destiny.
2016-10-17 09:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
earn her trust again, wait till she is ready for me, proof to her that there no one else but her,. if she is my true love then i will try my best to get her back expecialy when she still love. if its true love, no mater how far they go, they will meet again n be with each other. but if she really dun want me anymore n got a ney bf then i just move along n wait for another chance or wait for her or just move along without her. if she can do it i can do it too.
2006-09-20 22:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Syazwans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep going because she expresses love for me. The only thing that would stop me from trying is if she reversed herself and told me she no longer loved me. Then, I would stop all communication. But that's me.
2006-09-20 22:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt but i dont blame her for feeling that since she had a rough year, for crying out loud, give her time... only time will tell.
if u cant wait, then u know the answer.
2006-09-20 22:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_for_you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignoring people is mean and cruel dont be straight and honest
2006-09-20 22:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow so long to see
2006-09-20 23:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋