There is a place for everything and that doesn't belong in my mouth.
I've never given a blo job (sorry about the spelling) and I don't ever intend to. Quite honestly I think I would be sick, and that's even less romantic than saying 'no'.
girls - why do we give bjs?
guys - is it really that important, and if a girl won't is it a deal breaker for you?
2006-09-20 22:00:17 · 22 answers · asked by sweets 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not the only one that does not give blow jobs i don't because it turns me off completely i think it is disgusting
2006-09-20 22:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by becc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman.U can not I mean can not put ur mouth on every man!!!!!! If this is the man that he can do anything 2 u and u can do anything 2 him ok.Go to the store and by this water based gel 4 gag relief take yr time.If u won't he'll find someone that will!!!!!!!! Possibly this is not the man 4 u.
2006-09-21 05:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by LADONNA W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to do it than don't do it. there is nothing wrong with it.
i remember the first time that i did and it was a big turn of because i was not ready for it.
now i do it sometimes for my fiance but in the beginning i didn't like that but after a while i started enjoying also once you get to know the guy than it's not so bad.
before you do you have to know what you like, do you like when they push you're head or things like that. when you know that than you can say to the guy that he can not do that or he can just like that so it stays comfortable for you.
also when you are not enjoying it and you want it to be finished fast than you push with you're thumb on the place between the BA*** and the a**. than they come faster.
good luck if you decide to do it
2006-09-21 05:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by kelleke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your in touch with your sexuality,there's nothing wrong with not being into oral sex,but i have to ask,how do or would you feel about not getting it yourself?If your mate told you that he would never go down on you,the thought of it makes him sick,would you be OK with it and continue your relationship with him? I would like to believe that women give there men oral sex because they love them and truly want to please them and that most like it as well. I wouldn't break up with my mate because she won't do it,i would never ask anyone to do something that makes them uncomfortable.Have you tried washing him yourself before doing it at lease?Could it be the thought of him going in your mouth that turns you off? This reminds me of a old saying,"never say what you won't do"
2006-09-21 05:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not a deal breaker. But a big negative.
2006-09-21 05:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must not be 'a deal breaker'. The practice is deviant anyway. Good for you if you can find someone who does not care about it.
2006-09-21 05:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by WEBBADGER 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why....well personally I like watching my guy "get off". It turns me on to see him so excited. and just to know that I can get him that excited with just using my mouth and tonuge....just imagine what other body parts can and will do!!! And by the way....its not as bad as u think....give it a try.....u dont like it then dont do it again......but always remember this.....U must give in order to recieve!!! And thats a fact of life!
2006-09-21 05:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by stressing_over_what 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I would say to you is, do you expect a guy to have oral sex with you, if you do then it's not unacceptable for a guy to want you to have oral sex with him.
Don't knock what you haven't tried, yes the thought puts you off, but if your lover is clean then its quite a normal thing to do.
We do it for all sorts of reasons, to please our partners whom we love or don't love but like to have sex with, we do it because some of us find it enjoyable, we do it to have it reciprocated, we love to see our guys enjoying themselves, or if you really want to get down to it, we're after something lol, or we just feel like doing it.
No one is saying you have to swallow, just imagine it's a lolly pop!!
I think the guys are going to say that they would prefer a woman who did, but if they really loved you they wouldn't make you do anything you didn't want to!!
2006-09-21 05:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by Migz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an act most intimate shared by two people who are truly in love and who want to please each other in a most special way, not something you do with just anybody you are having casual sex with.
2006-09-21 05:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by moonshadow79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't give BJ's, because I got told I'm using my teeth too much...but what do I know , I'm just a little cat :-D
2006-09-21 05:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by too shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its Very nice to get one..... but its not a 'deal breaker'.
I think most girls who realy get into it.. just likes making her man feel good, or the power and control factor.
2006-09-21 06:25:04 · answer #11 · answered by ccfromnj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋