i have no problem in picking up girls or boys when we have sex they never come back or talk to me again
2006-09-20 21:55:18 · 18 answers · asked by richardcatred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you smell like sh**!!
2006-09-20 21:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to look for more than sex in people, too much focus is put on 'having sex' these days, try not having sex for a month and get your head clear to think about forming a long lasting relationship, nobody wants a person who is only interested in sex. you may not have a problem 'picking' up boys or girls so your appearance must be ok, it is your attitude towards them that is so obviously wrong, think about what you do when you get them home, what do you say? take a good long look at yourself and ask how you can make yourself better.
2006-09-21 05:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stop jumping right in the sack
Second, make them aware of your sexuality
Third maybe the people that you are picking up just want a one night stand look at where you are picking them up is it a place to start a relationship?
2006-09-21 04:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try going out with them for a couple of months before you have sex with them, thats the only way you will find out if its you they want or just a quick romp, plus you might get a bit more respect.
2006-09-21 04:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by littleredgeisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, well...
Perhaps consider a different approach. Rather than just pick people up for a one-night stand and hope they commit, why not just make friends and see if you can find anyone looking for a committed relationship?
2006-09-21 05:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Studier Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should pick one or the other. or maybe the bi bit is a problem with the situation. i would not go with a woman who is bi it is just my personal choice like yours is to be bi. maybe you should look for somone that is bi like yourself. hope this helps take care.
2006-09-21 04:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by JAY JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you lose out because your bi (despite what someone above me wrote), I think it's because you sleep with them before you get to know them. You seem to be looking for love whereas the people you are sleeping with are looking for sex.
And have you noticed that because your bi people think you'll sleep with anything - especially them? I hate that!
2006-09-21 05:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by sarcasticquotemarks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are rushing into things and having sex too soon.
To find love and keep it you have to take your time, foster it, build trust with the person and a connection that they want to keep.
2006-09-21 05:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by n_dymphna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey youve got to pick the right peeps t' peeps i hang out wiv r bi & we all get along fine no matta wot happens!
2006-09-21 15:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by dissapearing angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi becoz they may hav thought that you are a selfish person . so dont go for sex till you understand tat person opinion on you .
2006-09-21 04:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by gopi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably its because of the way you are.When they discover,they would rather move on.
2006-09-21 05:07:21 · answer #11 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋