i was told that my b/f cheated on me so i took matters into my own hands! when he was sleeping i handcuffed him to the bedposts and got real seductive with him, when he was about to climax i stopped and asked him, ofcourse he denied it so i really started torchering him! i made him beg me to make love with him! was I out of line using tactics of this sort?
2006-09-20 21:51:09 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!!!! U R right on point! If U don't let him know what he has at home he will get tempted or sidetracked so just 2 B on the safe side let him think back about what is at home when the problem is presented 2 him he'll think twice b4 he react!!!!!!!! If u don't keep ur man coming back someone else will!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 22:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by LADONNA W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Initially, yes, as it was relatively non-consensual what you did at the beginning. However, if he was going along with it after this initial act, you're in the clear. When you stopped before he reached climax is certainly a valid technique of tease and torture (and pretty awesome even if the issue of cheating isn't involved).
You were perhaps a bit on the lucky side this time, although I am only guessing as the two of you might have in place a unilateral-initiation policy in place. I suggest that you clarify that with him if there's to be a "repeat performance". ;-)
2006-09-22 00:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cheated before, and you didn't do stuff like that to him, I can't see him cheating again if he enjoyed what you did to him, then he'll keep coming back for more.
You may have been a little out of line, but it sounds as though you both had a wild night, but then if he thought he was in for a night like this he's a man, come on course he is going to say no he didn't cheat even if he did!!
2006-09-21 04:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Migz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on whether he enjoyed it or not LOL, did you hear him complaining. ? you may have just discovered a sexual fetish for you both LOL.it was a little unusual I have to say most women would ask outright or hit him over the head with a fry pan not make love to him and make him beg for more, i cant see that as been much of a punishment for him .
2006-09-21 04:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Technically, that was a form of abuse since he was not consenting to the handcuffing. I think you were out of line.
2006-09-21 04:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you were out of line, I understand its frustrating but you cant do that! You'll get yourself in some seious trouble. What if something went wrong?! Please be careful. Maybe you should try talking to him. Or just leave him.... if he brings out a side of you thats like that, its not good.
2006-09-21 04:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go girl!! that was a damn neat trick....but next time u decide to do something be sure of the facts first!!..he might not actually have cheated on u...so then this punishment was meted out to an innocent person....u have fun tho girl:D tc
2006-09-21 04:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by v v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was cruel but also that is a good way to have him be more careful the next time just leave him fo rreal this time
2006-09-21 04:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...i think that's too much. U heard that ur boyfriend cheated on u but u aren't sure. U shouldn't treat him like that before u are sure. But anyway...there won't be smoke without fire...
2006-09-21 04:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your tactics weren't very nice but better than Lorena Bobbitt's!!!
2006-09-21 05:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by curious ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋