I met this guy and he has treated me better than I could ever hope to be treated. Sometimes he trys way too hard. He is also a whimp, he is clastophobic to the extreme and wont touch spicy food or eat sushi. Its weird how he is soo shy and reserved and every action he does is to make me and everyone else happy. HE is also only an inch taller than me. Also I found no soap or toilet paper in his bathroom. His pillows are also gross, bumpy, flat and dirty(possily with drool). THIS IS THE WORST PART... as I was ready to forget about the other qualities I realized his house REAKS like cat pee, ALWAYS! He loves cats only has two but they are his forever and wouldnt dare get rid of them. Today on our date I could smell him from across the table and across the room. I dont want to hurt him because I care about him but should I really be expected to deal with this smell?!?!?
2006-09-20 21:28:33 · 9 answers · asked by double whammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you're not expected to deal with this smell. This is hideous! Not normal. Do you have any idea what you may be getting yourself into with this guy? Stick with him much longer and that smell is going to be a part of you. The nose knows.
He over compensating by being super nice because he knows he has a problem. Yeah, he going to be nice to you too. Don't want to lose this good thing. How much longer are you going to stomach this before your appetite bites the dust? Surprising you've stayed on this long. A date and everything. Out in public. You two were actually served in a place where there is food? Mind boggling.
You say he's a wimp? Well, wimp that foul carcass of his into the nearest tub of bleach. You care about him? Tough love, baby! Time for a major overhaul. Since he's treated you so charming now is the time to return a favor. Treat him to a nice clean breath of fresh air. And if he doesn't want to change his feline skunk funk, well then, burn your bridges, and your clothes, far far away from this ground zero. The quicker the better too!
2006-09-21 00:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do things of showing him how to be clean at his place. Surprising him one time of cleaning the place and putting some tissue paper and a spray and shampoo for cat would help. As you said he is a sweet guy and showing him things like that is sweet too. Its not bad to teach him cleanliness.
2006-09-20 21:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by chill25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you bring over the soap and toilet paper teach him how to use it and clean his cat litter box also. Maybe he's just one of those guy who need's a good woman to clean up behind himself.
2006-09-20 21:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats rank....
ok... yay he's a nice guy... tell his dirty *** to jump in the shower... honestly... thats not cool. i expect my girls to maintain a certain level of cleanliness and it just shows respect for yourself.
if you were talkin to some good lookin dude u were way into... would YOU show up smellin like yesterday??
he shoudl respect your wishes in regards to how he smells cause honestly... it'll be a mood killer IFyou guys get to a sexual point in the relationship.
so... TELL him about it... be open... and if he doesnt wanna listen or at least make an attempt to remedy the situation... you can call me.
i smell good
2006-09-20 21:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by rEf1eX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he believe that the cat pee smells nice?? or mayb he's used to it? but frantically saying his house smells bad is your opinion. i think you should just be honest to him that the smell is kind of irritating and see what he says, i have a feeling he might be quite kool about it. but good luck with whatever you decide, but i personally think you shouldn't break it off with someone just cause of their smell.. what sort of mentality is that?? :)
2006-09-20 21:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by uniqu3ang3l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him. but do it very gently. if he does everything to make everyone else happy like you say then maybe he might do something about the smell.
2006-09-20 21:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to share you a guy secret
all guys are not dirty like girls think.
us guys have 2 places...a clean place, where we bring girls who deserve it(potential wife and mother of our kids) and dirty places, where we just party with girls and throw them out like a bag of garbage.
hope I was some help.
2006-09-20 21:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
help him clean it up or fine you a cleaner man who would want to sleep with him get a new man
2006-09-20 21:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by dw_biggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally hell no.... think about this...if u took things further and were married, you have to deal with all that.... those are things just a lil too much... it's one thing if it's a mett... but... eww
2006-09-20 21:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by SunRise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋