I am with a girl that I have everything in common with but I just dont think I love her WHY? I am not the type to play people so when I am with some one I am with them until somthing breaks us apart like moving away. I have never broken up with some one nor has someone ever broken up with me because of bad feelings its been mutal because of circumstances. But I have never been all that sad about the end of any relationship. Everyone has been perfect in their own way but never right in my mind. No hard feelings all good feeling but never any GREAT feelings. So confused. Please help.
2006-09-20 21:17:58 · 13 answers · asked by jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is completely normal. I think almost everyone goes through it. Atleast you are able to see that you are not in love. A lot of times people mistake lust or puppy love for the real thing, and that can actually cause a lot of unnecessary pain. When you find the right girl, you will know it and she will be the one that you never let go of. Until then, you are just trying different girls on for size so to speak. There is nothing wrong with dating, enjoying the company of another person and not being in love with them. Just keep doing what you are doing, continue to be the great guy that you seem to be and one day true love will happen for you.
2006-09-20 21:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just like drama. I know exactly what you mean too.
You are not mentally fullfilled right now. So you have lots of thoughts running around in your head. Probably a lot of what-if type of questions. Finding love is easy but finding true love is hard. The next step is up to you. No-one can help you with that choice.
2006-09-21 04:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by late4ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because -apparently- you have not met the right person yet.
The fact that you are not sad at the end of any relationship means that you are a reasonable person or a very optimistic one; why do you consider it to be negative?
Have you ever thought that you may be a perfectionist and that's the reason that noone seems to be right in your mind? In that case, try to compromise... a little....
Good luck!
2006-09-21 04:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by ngiapapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry if my English is not correct but
don't worry, this kind of mind happen to every body and all the time.
some time it's the lassitude of a couple or for friends
I'm sure you love your girlfriend, maybe you just need to change the way you live, surprising your self and your girlfriend
i don't know, reconquer her, court her ....
or maybe it's just not the ONE!
good luck!
2006-09-21 04:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by glooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be concerned so much about love. When you are ready to properly settle down with someone, settle with the nearest one 'you have MOST in common with'. Build and sustain mutual TRUST and you will not regret for life.
2006-09-21 05:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by WEBBADGER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you haven't met her yet! the one for you...the one they call "soulmate". Well when true love ( the one given just for you) strikes you...you can feel some extreme feelings. Now be patient while waiting for her! She will come in due time where everything is set. ;)
2006-09-21 04:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by maic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your heart is not yet open for someone.
maybe you just haven't found the ONE.
get out more...
you will certainly find your true love.
i think you're sweet. ^ ^
2006-09-21 04:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Yukino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a state of mind. try not listening to your heart often. try to think with your mind, then you will know.
2006-09-21 04:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep trying ul get one to turn ur dreams and life aroud
2006-09-21 04:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because dear... you have been waiting for me. I am the women you are meant to love. so here I am. take me away....
2006-09-21 04:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋