Im a virgin who might have sex on saturday night...?

Question

Theres a high chance ill have sex with my ex-girlfriend this saturday night (which is not long to go) and i know she would go all the way if i would. Im 17 and she is 18. Shes had sex before, shes told me, but i think its more than 3 or 4 times. So she knows how to do it and i dont, even though i told her im a virgin she said she liked that. Im normally a shy guy but i guess im hooking in, so im not going to pass up this chance. BUT MANNN AM I NERVOUS, yes i am!, i have no idea what to do or what is going to happen. Any ideas on what to do ?? How to start it and end it ?? or any comments in between? =P thanks

Answer 1

Yeah, its normal that you are anxious and worried. Cool down and let her play with you, since she had it before and she knows, how to go about it. Remember foreplay is important, start with kissing and petting and go slow. That's what you have in hand. How it ends is not in your control. But definitely it will end faster as it is your first time. Don't forget the condom.


Good luck and enjoy.

Answer 2

I know this is not what you want to hear, but I would recommend not doing it. This is you ex-girlfriend, not your girlfriend. If this was a girl you were still dating and that you had been dating for a really long time, like for many months or even a year or so then I would gladly give you tips. However, since I think that giving up your virginity to an ex-girlfriend is not a smart idea at all, I'm afraid I can't give you any tips.

Answer 3

Watch porn video to have some ideas.
Since she got sexperience, let her show U the robe (or underneath it).

But 1stly, wash your body, armpits, toes, penis & anus cleanly. This is the least U can do to show your respect 2 her s a fellow human being. If U can, trim your pubic hair so that she won't eat your hair while blowing U.

Subsequently, let nature takes its course. Don't rush to start & rush to finish. Even if U ejectulate pre-maturely, U can always do again.

Next, feel & love her body (including ears, eyes & toes). Don't attack her boobs, nipples or **** only. Make her comfortable.

After completion, don't rush to wash & sleep. Cuddle & kisses R very important.

Another important stuff: Remember contraception. Not so much showing that U R prepared 2 B laid, but 2 show her that U practice safe sex & don't wanna have extra lives accidentally.

Answer 4

LOL...well, I normally don't give out sex advice to teenagers..but, since you already have plans on going a head with it.....than here goes....

first, you might want to masturbate at least 2 times before you get with her that night. Because, if you don't you might end up getting off too soon from the excitement. and DON'T forget the condom.

second, start with kissing her and feeling around on each other...it gets everyone in the mood and it's a great ice breaker.

third, just take your time and relax. there's no hurry.

But honestly, you really should wait. It's not going to hurt you to wait till your older.

Answer 5

rent the movie "There's something about Mary" or "American Pie 1 and 2" that'll give you some hints,
but just chill though, since she know it's your 1st time, I don't think she'll expecting super good performance, all guys gets nervouse on their 1st thime, but you'll know what to do when Sat comes, because since you can't plan for it, you might as well just go along with it.. but try to make it romantic, kinda old school but some rose pedals on the bed might make her feel love, and make sure your phone is turned off and no one will walk in on you since the memory will be with you forever.

Answer 6

spank the monkey before hand so the whole thing isn't over in a minute. make sure you use a rubber. and I know it's easy to say, but try not to be nervous. once you get going everything will come naturally (no pun intended).

Answer 7

if u dont know **** the go read the kama sutra theres alot of helpful tips ur local bookstore should carry it go check it out and good look

dont be a minute man now lol

Answer 8

Your a virgin. It won't matter about the start or finish, because it will all be over very fast. Let her lead if you must. But you really should wait.

Answer 9

I would recommend not to do it... and ex-girlfriend? What the hell? Shouldn't she be your current girlfriend? Well I just hope you don't end up like my friend who did it with his ex and the next day she did one of his best friends without telling him... What's wrong with being in the v-club? lol

Answer 10

LoL wow
if its your 1st time you should masturbate before you do it with her so you wont be a 1 minute man cause you're gonna feel good and might let it out real fast .