I've been hanging out with this girl for about 2 month now she asks me out to eat and to go places with her nearly every day we e-mail each other all day wile at work as well I told her that I would like to pursue a relation ship but she keeps saying that we are just friends I'm confused. Also we are both going through a divorce and we both have kids.
2006-09-20 20:56:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen, just be her friend. if she's going through a divorce right now, the last thing on her mind is a b/f. don't rush her into anything....her and her kids need time to heal and to be alone. calm down. after a while she'll come to you when she's ready.
but, right now the best thing you could do for her is be her best buddy that she can depend on and cry to.
2006-09-20 21:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Praise the Lord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like her, are just wanting the attention of a man without having to give "anything". 50 bucks says you are the one buying when you go eat arent you? Of course you are. They want the security of the man, and the feelings of being wanted, without having to actually be in a relationship.
Don't be fooled by this trick women play. There is no such things as "Just friends". Every single woman I was just "Friends" with I was sleeping with.
2006-09-21 04:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think and what anyone else thinks isnt really important here. How old are the children? whos divorced ? how long? If you really want to see if she wants a relationship then dont email her from work & knock back a few invites. Then see what happens. Good luck & becareful your not the rebound relationship :)
2006-09-21 04:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Life_aint_easy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting divorced and have kids, and you already can't wait to find the next one? Was your wife unfaithful to you (the only valid reason for a divorce)?
I just can't believe your cavalier attitude about this.
2006-09-21 04:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just said it. she is going through divorce and most probably feels reluctnant to start a new relationship, coz of insecurity, trust issues etc. maybe she needs time to trust another man again...just be patient and give her some time, she'll come about. sounds like she really likes you! good luck.
2006-09-21 04:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow! Trust me coming from a single mom, she is probably only looking for adult contact and someone else that is going thru what is she going thru. Don't pressure her or she will run.
You both have to consider the children's feelings about their parents dating other people.
2006-09-21 04:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push things til the divorces are sttled, then she may feel like persuing things on her own initiative.
2006-09-21 03:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As she said you two are just friends. That how we woman act with our friends.
2006-09-21 03:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋