.. go and have sex on the altar?? obviously not right!! because that would be disrepectful and you'd never even think of it right!! because church is like a temple or greatness, yeah?? well.. then can you tell me how comes so many girls let guys do it to them. i mean come on think about it, the womans body is like a temple (church) it should be respected, then why do some women let men come into there temple and disrespect them, because i know some of them don't even think your full of greatness. this question is even for the non-religious and by the way i'm not talking about rape.
2006-09-20 20:43:27 · 16 answers · asked by uniqu3ang3l 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Why do woment disrespect their bodies? It's because they don't see the value in keeping themselves for their future husbands. Society has told girls a bunch of lies, telling them it's no big thing to give it away, and to not be a tease, and other such nonsense. But, it doesn't stop there. The guys are doing it to themselves too. They're not keeping themselves pure for their future wives. Society has told them a bunch of lies too, telling them to sow their wild oats, get their experience while they're young, being a virgin is embarassing, and other such rubbish. Our society has taken all the beauty, mystery and love out of relationships & marriage, making it all a big joke on a stupid sitcom. That's not life, and that's not real. You're right. Many people have no respect for their own bodies, or anything else that used to be sacred, and set apart for special use. Sex isn't special anymore. I've been very involved with several young teen girls who've gotten pregnant, and learned the hard way that it's not all fun & games. I see the after-effects of what careless sex does to young lives. So, why do women or men let this happen? Because they have no respect for themselves, taking what they want and not caring what happens afterward. Everyone says it's for love, but really it's a lack of love that people do this to one another. Love is not careless. <*)))><
2006-09-20 20:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to begin with neither the chuch (a building) or the altar are part of real christianity. Church comes fro eclisia meaning a group of people. they met in homes. That piece of wood is just aplaceto lean on when speaking.
As to sex. tell me what was the first commandment.
wrong it was go forth and multiply.
being a prude is not part of being God's friend.
that being said there is a place that discusse going into a temple prostitute as taking the Holy Spirit into a bad place, but that was idol worship.
Since our bodies are inhabited by the Holy Spirit then we should treat it respectfully like not over eating smoking, drinking too much alcohal etc. etc.
ones sexual practices must be judged by that individual and yes sometimes it does not show respect to that body.
one thing is for sure there is the distinct tone of condemnation in your written quetion and that is sinful. that is what is meant by judging as being wrong
you are also bordering on gossiping so be careful
Hope you find someone who loves you and takes good care of you in the near future.
2006-09-21 03:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think girls think of it as disrespect because alot of them have not been raised that way and they dont know the God's word.And sometimes even when you know that premarital sex is a sin, it can be easy to get caught up in the moment.
2006-09-21 03:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by morenita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are totally Right..
I mean,,, if i understand ur Question well...
a woman should be respected as a temple,,, a man should not get closer,, unless if he gives the woman something more than just sex...
really good Q..
2006-09-21 04:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Seeker 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question... I think so many women/girls let it happen because they have a low self esteem and even bad attention is still attention...makes them feel pretty, wanted and silly as it sounds even loved
2006-09-21 03:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did ya ever think some females don't think just like you? Yes, my body is my temple and I can let anyone enter I dam well please! Doesn't make me less of a person...
2006-09-21 03:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a Muslim i think it should not be allowed coz this is sick in ISLAM sex is only allowed after marriage having sex before marriage is like 2 animals are having sex because animal dont get married and they have sex all time
2006-09-21 03:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has anybody thought of it : God is omnipresent ( can you imagin that God is only found in church, temple only). Anyway God Bless You.
2006-09-21 03:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect not only the church but most of all, to GOD our creator.
2006-09-21 03:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by vsg0818 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way!! because i love me more than that!!some women dont have any respect for themselves or for others as well...and thats a sad fact but a true 1.....
2006-09-21 03:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by jsbrunette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋