I was with him for 3 years we ended it today for good, it hurts but its for real... its my fault, I hurt him bad and inturn hurt myslef I never cheeted on him or treated him with disrespect, about 3 months ago I broke up with him because we are going different directions but then I wanted him back, (he wouldnt take me back) then we agreed to see other people but we didnt... we kept in touch for about a month and said Ilove you, and good night... everynight
he clams I lead him on... because I just stopped talking to him for 2months after this... and just resonly decided to pick up my phone even tho I thought of him everyday it hurt to know I wasnt with him... I dont want to be with him and now he wants to be with me is clams he didnt know how much I ment to him and that he would do anything and everything to make us work... but I worked o hard on getting over him,
I believe he really loves me, and I believe I hurt him HOW DO I GET PAST THAT? he was my bestfriend... I feel heartless
2006-09-20 20:30:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to do young lady is figure out. When you do something totally drastic (Like breaking someones heart, cause your confused) you need to do something as drastic to get him back.
If it was me, i would call him say I was going to kill myself if he didnt take me back. If he refuses then have a friend call him in couple days and tell him you really did so he can figure out what he lost out on!
But if thats too extreme
Then find out where he works and show him that you care. Show up at his work place during lunch, walk up to him with a teddy bear and be like "Baby I know I did you wrong, but I want you back, please baby, please for the love of everything holy and sweet take me back". Then start crying so if he says "no" he will look like a jerk in front of his co-workers.
Well hope that helps!
2006-09-20 20:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you moved on there is nothing that you can do but just tell him i ask you back and when you did want me back i accepted it as that and i moved on. he will move on himself do not feel heartless. Just keep doing what you are doing time will help you pain. I know it corney to say but it is true i had a true love of 3 years and we had to break it off and he found himself someone new im sure by now and i have found someone i been married to him for about 5 yrs now so. Give it some time he will get over it. Just try not to feel heartless you are doing the right thing i mean why go with him when you do not like him anymore that truely is not fare to him anyway so that in it self you not going back with is being nice bc you are being honest enough to say no bc you do not like him. So in reality you are not heartless but you are being very kind to him.
2006-09-21 03:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really u should feel heartless because what u did was unfair! When u break up u should stop all communication, if u talked to each other everynight like that in his mind u still had interest therefore he still had chance, and for you, you played him like a lil toy u no what i mean, you like the fact that u still had mind control over him, and that is not good. So be straight up and be grown if your gonna end it, end it for real, no goodnights, no i love yous, no nothing. u go on with ur life let him go on with his in seperate directions!
2006-09-21 03:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by UR_SANCHO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him try not to do things that would encourage a relationship. Just try to make him understand where your coming from
2006-09-21 03:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not heartless.
i've been where you've been.
i think that you should just get over it.
it will complicate ur life if u continued to be with him.
i think that he just can't let you go coz u have been with him for a long time.
he will get over it eventually.
2006-09-21 03:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Yukino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are!!! By the way... learn to spell or use the damn spell check!
You don't deserve him! Leave him alone & let him find someone better!!!
2006-09-21 03:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by Little Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If pride is in the way... don't let it be.
If you love him go back to him except if there's a valid reason not to go.
2006-09-21 03:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by fatbiguglytoad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget the past & move on in life & never do the same mistakes AGAIN
2006-09-21 03:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by miss_rimi1989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not leave him .both of you sit together and find out the ways to rework the old magic
2006-09-21 03:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you lead him on... but then many men do that... so why feel bad abt it. apologize and move on..
2006-09-21 03:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋