2006-09-20 20:01:51 · 24 answers · asked by isabela d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try a little bondage to go with it ! Get Whipped, you bad littl' girl !
2006-09-20 20:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you need help if you enjoy being smacked around. I knew another gal like that. I saw her with a bruise on her check and asked her what happened. She said her bf hit her. I was shocked. Then she said she must have deserved it! I could hardly believe my ears. No one deserves to be beaten, even if they claim to like and welcome it. I think you've got some very deep issues that you need to talk out with a professional...and soon. Being hit is NOT love. Just ask any little kid that gets hit on a regular basis if that feels like love to him. Women who stay with abusive men generally don't think too highly of themselves and often think they deserve it. Do you think he hits you because he loves you? NO! He's controlling you, beating you into submission. Eventually, he'll hate you because you'll be like a beaten puppy, no longer any fun to hit because you curl up into a little whimpering ball. He'll find someone else to whack around, coming back to you just to let you know he still owns you. I know this sounds harsh, but what he's doing to you is worse. You've got to get outta there, NOW! If you're really being straight about this, you can't really consider that this man loves you in any way, wanting to stay with him. Please, little one, find a safe place to go, where there are other people, and call him, telling him it's over and you never want to see him again. Seek out a professional who can help you with what you've been through. You are worth so much more than this. <*)))><
2006-09-21 03:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that is a good way of loving to give to you or any other girls.The only smacks that your going to like is from your mama.Telling you what the hell your doing going out with a guy like that.You need a man that's going to love you and not hit you.Becuase one day you will realize in your life that he's not the one for you.
2006-09-21 03:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by KEVIN K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you two interpret those things. True love can exist even without those such acts. But better talk things out, tell each other what you think and feel and as much as possible set parameters or limits to your affection dis-playings. It would be better to focus on strengthening your communication. Sure, a few kisses and touchings won't hurt, but when will it be enough?
2006-09-21 03:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you get the answers to this the other day, why bother to repeat yourself, seems like you are just doing it for a reaction now.
There's Smack and then there's Spank, you should be able to work the difference out surely!!
2006-09-21 03:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Migz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we are talking outside of sex then the answer is no it is never OK, for anyone to lay their hands on you. Even if you like it, then I suggest you need to look into yourself and wonder why you have such a low self esteem.
If we are talking about during sex, then hey more power to ya.
2006-09-21 03:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, its sick behavior to smack people around or be smacked around. Maybe a little counseling would help.
2006-09-21 03:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. ABSOLUTELY NOT! HE MUST HAVE SMACKED YOU AROUND A FEW TOO MANY TIMES, BECAUSE YOU ARE TOTALLY WACK. People who care about u, don't want to hurt u . they want to make things better for u. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.. AND YOU NEED SOME COUNSELING!
2006-09-21 03:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by penelope 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If YOU like it, then that is fine. You must set the boundaries for that.
Personally, it won't happen. I WON'T abuse a woman and EXPECT the same in return.
2006-09-21 03:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Morpheus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that abusive relationship. Don't come crying to us when he breaks your arm or puts you in the hospital.
2006-09-21 03:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's done for sensual reasons, go ahead and knock yourself out!
2006-09-21 03:24:33 · answer #11 · answered by OSAM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋