and finding random people and beating them up, or even murder . I am bored and feel trapped in my room as it im on my mid semester break from UNI , and i spend all my time playing video games. I just hate everyone, cause i gave up alcohol and smoking 2 years ago, and just when my life looked to be turning better now my landlord wants me to move out for arguing too loudly too often on the phone. My girlfriend broke up with me for assaulting her (She hit me first ) .I'm an Overseas student, this isnt even my country to begin with, been here 3 years, and my former housemate recently left a calendar marking out all the dates me and my now (ex-gf) argued in my landlords mailbox. You may not like me, but now think hard, what should i do to save the lives of the innocent people im about to kill ? that and that alone is the question.
2006-09-20 20:00:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course after i kill others the idea would be suicide.
2006-09-20 20:04:07 · update #1
Dear Brother,
I am terribly sorry at the bad times that are happening to you.
Sometimes life does seem ery unfair.
But I know you are balanced enough to become aware of your thinking which can either benefit you or harm you. All of us have to undergo difficult situations in life-people, accidents,sickness,you name it-and the rest of us will raise their hands.The key point which decides if you are a winner or not is how you look at it and talk to yourself(i.e. think about it).
Basic errors in thnking about ourselves from the day we grew up, picked up from our surroundings and the media, have created this habit of thinking in each of us.Those who do not take the effort to reflect on themselves(i.e listen to what they are telling themselves) are bound to go through harder and harder experiences until they are forced to mend themselves.Have you heard this " I f man does not evolve, nature will force him to evolve, at the point of the bayonet" No go.
There is a purpose in the experiences which you are going through.Now you understand something about human relationships. We are the centre of our existence and any change made at the centre will reflect in our life.
so we have to start from our thinking. And balanced thinking only comes when we are :
1.Always engaged in something constructive-
moderate exercise
reading good books,
working for a living for standing on ones own legs,
supporting needy people without expecting anything in return etc.
2.Do regular meditation to calm down your thoughts.Then you have more choices, otherise we continue in thinking in the same old rut- hate for hate, violence etc..which is going to make our lives miserable.
3.Smile and Laugh often to yourself.Enjoy !It doesnt cost anything.
4.Cultivate the habit of positive self-talk all day.When you think wholesome, harmonious thoughts, your mental atmosphere becomes pleasant, your facial expression changes and people will feel good towards you. You see, everybody wants love and acceptance. But dont be too attached with people or things.Be like the lotus leaf on which water does not stay.
5.Perhaps you could join a good community or church or meditation group where they meditate/meet to pray regularly.Dont look at their faults- there will be.Just take what is good for you.You can visit www.blazinggrace.org and write to Mike Genung.He is a stabilising influence.
6. I t is a slow process.But YOU WILL SUCCEED !
2006-09-20 20:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by sud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really depressed with all the stress that's going on around you...being out of the country, breaking up w/ your girl, landlord on your ***...etc. I would see a doctor, get some counseling...maybe come back home to be w/ family and friends too. You obviously don't want to hurt other people or you wouldn't be asking people for help. Right now, you're not only a danger to yourself but you're a danger to others and you need professional help. There is nothing wrong with that and it's better late than never. Good luck. Oh, and find a new hobby...video games can get pretty violent and that probably isn't helping.
2006-09-20 20:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by justjerra_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem to be really mad and angry at everyone, u also seem to have an anger problem. my advice is try to focus on what little good is goin on in ur life ie ur studies, and family back home. If u kill others trust me u wont feel any better n will get into more trouble. Focus on other things like sports or get a hobby to divert u from ur boredom and anger. if all fail, seek professional help, killing innocent people is definately not the answr
2006-09-20 20:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you have an anger issue and an inner demon that wants to get the best of you.
Violence is never the answer for healing. And what would you gain by beating up/killing people who don't even know you?
I hope that you will rationalize your thoughts, cause it seems like you got some issues to work out.
2006-09-20 20:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by jmcn_fudge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do?
tell yourself that what ever you do you will get done to you 10 times over.
It doesn't end at death.You will go somewhere in the afterlife.
Even if you think I'm wrong
what if,,what if,,what if ? I am NOT wrong?
What if you pay over and over for what you have done?
You always have hope while you are alive.
if you look this up you can enter any word and scripture will pop up on the subject
http://www.biblegateway.com/keyword/
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/
http://www.biblegateway.com/keyword/
Nothing is immpossible for God
2006-09-20 20:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by sHiNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, the only evaluations i do in comparison to are those that say i'm inferior because of the fact i'm Hindu or because of the fact i'm Indian aka "brown". i'm getting an incredible type of crap approximately that. that's no longer humorous in any respect. yet, the numerous different people who will supply me 20 thumbs down for asserting i like Linkin Park, that's in simple terms hilarious.
2016-10-15 06:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you should skip step 1 and go directly to step two
commit suicide and if you like it enough come back and kill then commit suicide again. you have to try it out on your self first to see if it going to work, otherwise whats the use if it doesn't work!
2006-09-20 20:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is the chicken way out...take the hard road and deal with it and check yourself into a psycho ward.
2006-09-20 20:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by treasureisland85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure the FBI would be very interested in watching every move you make ! You are a walking time bomb ~ get help ~ NOW !!!
2006-09-20 20:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help.
2006-09-20 20:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋