Well I'am 30 years old and I have three lovely kids.Also cant forget my loveing girlfriend.She works at the hotel in the kicthen.She's a dishwasher and pantrey and gets' paid only $6.75 an hour.Well my uncle own's his this landscapeping buisness.He called me and asked me if I wanted to work.He said that the pay is $11.00 to $18.00 a hour.My brother is working for him and it's on maui.I want to but my girlfreind wont let me go.I want to so that me and my family can have things that they like.What should I do pleas tell me.
2006-09-20 19:51:57 · 5 answers · asked by KEVIN K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
cant she go with u it is better to work as u will feel better about urself and life might get better for all
2006-09-20 19:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am glad that you want to be responsible GOOD FOR YOU. 1st if your girlfriend has 3 kids why aren't you married? also who would watch these kids while you work? this is something that both of you need to sit down and discuss, you are thinking right by wanting a better life for your family, if someone needs to watch the kids it would make sense that the person making the least amount would watch the kids, unless you are able to work 2 seperate shifts (which is very hard on a relationship) You have to be responsible and it sounds like you are, now decide how the kids will be cared for and the rest should be ok. You did not say why she does not want you to, is is because of the location and being around a lot of ladies, maybe marriage would help her to trust you a little more. Just my opinion. =)
2006-09-21 02:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do anything you can to bring more money in. Your girlfriend makes an extremely low wage. Why doesn't she want you to work at this particular job? If not this job, find something else.
2006-09-21 02:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by deonne r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and see the world ~ stayin' at home ain't great unless you got a $100,000 eBay biz ! It's just not a healthy idea ! Go out and be seen !
2006-09-21 02:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the pay is quite high compare to your girlfriend's (nearly double...), you should ask her to quit and you should start working right away.
2006-09-21 02:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Tingkatan3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋