Hello ladies I was asking some advice about my friend Ignee about his personality and style.When I try to give him some advice, he'll act like I'm telling him wrong but I'm not because a female of mine try to tell him that he is too quiet when talking on the phone. Also he's too laid back and not aggressive to the women meaning not showing enough initiation. I'm not talking about being a sex fiend but just making his presence known so he want be on the friend zone like he alway is. Also Ignee is very closed mine about anything new he just stick with his methods. Ignee does not like to change for the better like be more assertive with women because most females like guys more a little aggresive and show more lead in the dating game. When we go out to the clubs, females undermine or just overlook him because his only 4' 10" so do you ladie think Ignee need some money in his life to improve himself. Also a friend of my cousin suggest that he needs to be a hell of a guy.Is Ignee your type?
2006-09-20 19:27:07 · 5 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignee aint my type. did u say he is 4' 10" ? I like tall ( from 5' 8")dudes, so that cuts him off. nway there are still ladies out there who can like him wat he needs to do is work on his personality
2006-09-20 20:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by smart_eluh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should ever change or feel compelled to change who they are and what they are about to get someone else to like them, or to want to spend time with them. Being close minded, is not always a bad thing, alot of people call that having morals. If women overlook him, that is because they are too shallow to see a person for who and what they are about, and only see what the person appears to be. Adding money to his life is not going to help him improve himself, actually if anything that would only help him be used and hurt. And then he could end up not wanting to even bother going out or meeting women.
2006-09-21 02:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by biggsbabygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off your friend if he is a layed back quiet type, he is in the wrong place, a club is like a meat market and I doubt he will find what HE is looking for, tell him if he wants to find quality he needs to go to places that really interest him, what type of things does he like to do. I would not advise anyone to hook up in a club if they are looking for something more than meat. Good luck to your friend. And no he should not be more agressive because that is not the type of person he is, do not make him into something he is not.
2006-09-21 02:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like quiet laid back guys. I might flirt with a guy who approached me in the club but wouldn't seriously date him. I think you should let your friend be himself, there's someone out there for everyone....if he's not asking for your advice maybe he doesn't need it.
2006-09-21 02:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by lilrnblover86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if Ignee is happy then good luck to him. he doesn't need to change things will work out the way they are meant to.
2006-09-21 02:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋