MY ex keeps calling me..its been a year and half since we broke up. WE havent had sex and i live 2 hours away from him but he keeps calling...why do you think this is? he says he cares and loves me but we are both living seperate lives and he has a new girlfriend!! if he has a new girl..why has he continued to call me after 1.5 years? and its not a booty call b/c i refuse to have sex w.him!. i still love him but don't know what to do b/c he has another girl at home (i live 2 hours away). its killing me to keep in touch with him b/c i miss him so much. he is emotionally shy....but he broke up with me...so i dont know how to act. should i tell him i need time to meet other guys and that he is holding me back? if so will he ever call me again?.this has been all i think about for the past 1.5 years.im so emotionally drained! i just really love him. will he ever call me again if I say I need time to heal and for myself?
2006-09-20 19:23:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like this guy really does love you and knows he made a mistake a long time ago. If he didint love you, why would he be wasting his time calling you all the time especially if he has a girlfriend. Its obvious that he cares for you tremendously but it seems he is too afraid to tell you that now from breaking your heart along time ago. I bet he is waiting for you to make that first move so if I was you, I would be up front and honest with him. Tell him how you feel and that you still love and care for him very much and see where it goes from there. If his answer comes out reversed and he says the total opposite and doesnt love or care for you, then cut him lose. Find someone who is worthy of you and your time and dont go wasting anymore time with him. People make mistakes and i really think he is kicking himself in the a** for it but everyone deserves a second chance but the only way you will really know the truth and the answer to your question sweetie is to ask him yourself so good luck and I hope i was of help for you.
2006-09-20 19:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by kristen e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-19 19:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in harmsway, but it's all in the game of love
if you want to play, bat your eye lashes and geter done. you only as good as you let your self be. a good girl goes to heaven a bad girl goes everywhere,.. it's a bumper sticker that i saw but it cuts like a knife..guys are real ,it's the fear of what other people think that cause the problems, ii you get a great offer you'll forget him in a heart beat, so do what it takes to get it evened out between you two so you get some comfort from someone else and have equal terms to see what rises and falls in your heart when you have more information.
2006-09-20 19:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say he loves you .he just wants to make sure you are ok.tell him that all of this is draining you .if he loves you he will understand.yall must of made a real connection.he can't get over it .it's a pain he also feels .just to hear your voice helps him sooth the pain.you are on his mind not day in and day out .it's just little moments when he says to his self what is she doing now .helove will always be there for you .not like the the flood gates are openlike they were before .but as the good times you 2 had.you feel it in your heart .because you are like ..hey he called me again he still loves me.he will always.but you have to move on.and find another man to build you future with.and when he calls tell him thanks for thanking of me but i have moved on ...bye
2006-09-20 19:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by ED S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds just like my ex. I broke up with him in 2002, had a baby with another guy...and my ex STILL CALLS ME. He's a stalker! Not sure what's goin on with ur guy? Maybe he's obsessed with you as well????
2006-09-20 19:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by MiLuv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only true love, unconditional love, everlasting love. my God put him there for you. it hurts so much, i can feel it. you are his medicine. he may have this angel in his life right now to help him and the pain, real love offers. he loves you and maybe you should stop all that boody talk. not everybody defines love with sex. that should be clear. stop playing, life is so little. try a little
learning about yourself and why you might want to try to love in this special way, for once. God be with you...
2006-09-20 19:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just feels guilty that he dumped u and cares for u. but he doesn't love u that's for sure. just pities u. my bet is when (or if) u find another guy he won't call u anymore
2006-09-20 19:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, you know and I know you won't have sex with him but he still thinks he can and he will keep on trying until you give in, please do not fall for it he is trying to have his cake and eat it too, he would do you the same way if you were the girlfriend.
2006-09-20 19:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Phill klueyain Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number to an unlisted number. This guy is freak and you should consider yourself well rid of him.
2006-09-20 19:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he just got dump he need to get laid
dee de dee
2006-09-20 19:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Osummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋