Ok this grl and I have been txting a lot, and I wanted to find a calender of when her v-ball games are, so is it stalker like of me to find one from her school website? Realize she lives over 14 hrs away. I am not saying I am going to go to the games, but i am saying that i could like wish her good luck, and stuff.
2006-09-20 19:13:42 · 23 answers · asked by clueless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is
2006-09-20 19:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not stalking her, it's just a nice way of getting to know her without there being any pressure on either side. Stalking would be repeated harrassment of her in a way to cause her to be afraid, which I'm sure you're not doing. However 14 hours is a long way to go to watch a game!
2006-09-21 02:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that sounds sweet. Stalking is finding the calendar, printing it out, along with pictures of her, gluing them to your wall and going to every single game, but not sitting in the bleachers, just standing in the outfield behind the fence. Wearing a hoodie.
Seriously, what you're doing sounds nice and considerate.
2006-09-21 02:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Space Case 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure if you talk to her she'd end up telling you if she has a game the next day or what not cuz what's the point of lookin it up if you're not gonna go. then you wont feel like a stalker either. just ask her when her games are.
2006-09-21 02:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sheena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, but some people might call it that. I prefer to call it being interested in the person you're talking to. Plus, sometimes you find out that the person you're texting isn't the person they've been portraying themself as all along. I say go for it.
2006-09-21 02:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, u live far away... chances are she just sees u as someone cool to talk to when she's online sometimes.. forget driving to see a girl..
make thm come see me if... IF anything,.
she's most likely talkin to someone local and they're gonna be at the game. invited and stuff.
yeah, this is a dick answer... but its the harsh reality of the situation.
its kinda stalkerish to know where she's gonna be and when if she dont tell you.
2006-09-21 04:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by rEf1eX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not stalking, but it is a little creepy, cuz you wouldnt be telling her how you got it, and why. trust me, man, dont do it, instead ask HER when her games are. plus she'll feel like you care a little. BIG points there trust me
2006-09-21 02:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by mooncougar13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally would be freaked out if someone new things about me without me telling them so to stop her freaking out i would ask her when her games are on and tell her why. good luck.
2006-09-21 02:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by burn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorta!
2006-09-21 02:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her first, it'd be sweet of you to do that. not asking and just showing up i guess might scare her off a little bit. go ahead and ask her first :) good luck
2006-09-21 02:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Lucifer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-09-21 02:15:45 · answer #11 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋