If you hated men, and liked women, would you become full lesbian? I just can't bring myself to because I don't trust women. I'm so tired of men, and all their crap though. it seems like a possibility...
2006-09-20 18:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm......maybe you have some personal issues and hang ups to let go of. there are crappy men and women everywhere. but there are some truly endearing men and women everywhere. i think people attract what they know. so maybe theres something you need to work on. or maybe you are just bi-sexual. looks like you have a lot to think about though.
2006-09-20 19:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♥2323vsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your tired of mens crap does not make you a lesbian. I wouldnt become a lesbian for many reasons.....I am not attracted to women and well did I say I am not attracted to women? There are a few good men out there. I say good, no ones perfect. Good luck
2006-09-20 19:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't say that unless u have no feeling to men but to women.. If u are still normal, why force yourself to like women?? I'm not saying that lesbians are abnormal, but i mean the way of feeling.
I know love is very tiring and sometimes heart-breaking. But when u are hurt, it doen not mean that there is no possibility that u won't be able to love anymore and meet the right guy. Remember, if u are hurt, it only means that "u have not meet the right guy and the ONE"...
Be patient and learn from your failure, and u will improve. Love is a process, u have to keep up and find the ONE. Believe in fate and u will succeed!
Dear i sincerely pray for u, pray that u will find HIM and your happiness!
2006-09-20 19:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One important thing you have to think about, hon, is that being tired of men doesn't necessarily mean that you're a lesbian. You shouldn't "become" a lesbian just because you think dating a woman would be easier than dating a man. Maybe you just haven't found the right man yet!
If you're curious about being with a woman, then I encourage you to explore that. If it doesn't feel right to you, though, then you're probably not a lesbian....you've simply had more than your share of bad experiences with men.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed in hopes that you'll find someone awesome--male OR female! :)
2006-09-20 19:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing, not all men suck. My husband is great and I love him dearly. Also, do you find women sexually attractive? There have been times when I was ready to give up men, but I never wanted to have sex with a woman. I am definitely hetero. Try Eharmony, I would think that a guy who took the time to fill out the whole questionaire and all is probably serious. Hang in there.
2006-09-20 19:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what i hear this sooo much but the truth is it is not men or women it is the type of people you are dealing with. If you are attracting horrible men you should look at why, work on you and then you will find that you will attract better men.
2006-09-20 19:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by lovleymel@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is wrong to measure all men with the same yard stick... Dont give up...
On contrary try to explore the possibility to improve your own weakness if there is any...
The way you are thinking to choose will certainly make you fed up quickly and will add on more frustration
2006-09-20 19:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're going to pick the same F-ed up type of chicks and you would pick in the loser guys you like. switching sexes is a detail.
2006-09-20 19:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's no reason to become a lesbian
2006-09-20 19:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we can't develop ourselves to be gay/lesbian if we are not!
I'm straight and will always be. same to you.
2006-09-20 19:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋