I used not to believe in fate, bcoz it is so unreal... Yet this thing has happened to to me last yr!
Lat yr i met him in Friendster... At that time i just broke up with a guy and was very very sad. I changed the setting of my account so that anyone can see my full profile and send messege to me.. It was just 1 day after i changed my setting that he messeged me and asked for my MSN.. Isn't it fate? If i did not change at that time, he won't be able to msg me and we won't have the chance to know each other.. This was in Jan last year and we have been together since Mar and till today we have been together for almost 19 mths.
And i realise that he is one i have been waiting for so long; Yes he is the 1! I never beleive can find a good guy through internet... Yet he is the special one for me.
So now i guess this is all bcoz of FATE???
2006-09-20
18:47:58
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I met him in person after 1 mth. I found he is really a nice guy.
I think that it was not fate, it won't be HIM to msg me le, it would be another guy and i may not have the feeling to thay guy.
If it was not fate, i won't know him after all
2006-09-20
18:57:04 ·
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yeah, it is because 0f fate... s0me say it is pr0vidence (the arrangement 0f events) y0u may want 0ther gus but fate has aLready decided the guy f0r y0u.. the guy wilL huv f0r the rest 0f y0ur life... s0, if y0u've never expected t0 meet this guy 0f y0urs at that day when y0u changed yer statz...that means, y0u are realLy destined f0r each 0ther.. n' d0n't y0u think y0u'lL find this perfect guy 0f y0urs if y0u didn't br0ke up wit' yer f0rmer guy??? meanin', s0me hurtfuL n' sad things that we enc0unter is n0t at alL that bad... but it is f0r 0ur 0wn benefit. d0n't'cha think?!?!? =') welL, wish y0u luck wit' yer guy.... God bLess....
2006-09-20 19:00:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, I really believe in fate. All lot of things that happened to me seems to be fated. one of my ex colleague happened to be my collegaue again after 12 years. Just imagine there are so many companies in SG but we can become colleague again after 12 years, isn't it fate.
So I always feel that when people are together regardless if they are friends, husband and wife, brother and sister or even enemies, this is what fate have brought us till this stage. So cherish your relation with your Special one.
2006-09-21 05:09:46
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answered by Clown & Joker 5
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I believe in fate also. I know this guy from college and we're good friends now but when i started chatting to him in the beginning i found out we were both born in the same hospital (miles away from where we live now), both lived in the same area 5 mins away from eachother, then we both moved to exactly the same village in the same year a lot further away, we then eneded up in the same college and met through mutral friends, it was like we were meant to meet, it's really good that you have found the one tho, let's hope you stay together!
2006-09-20 19:46:16
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answered by missy minx 3
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Of course it's a fate! why him? why not the other guys?
You and him are meant to be together and that's a fate.
No matter how long a relationship can last, but once we ever love and meet someone, that's already a fate!
2006-09-20 18:59:20
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answered by ? 3
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Yes I believe in FATE. Things happen for a reason. But still work you have to work on keeping your relationship alive.
2006-09-20 18:53:12
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answered by Blah Blah Blah 4
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i think we've some administration, so there is not any destiny. although, we at the instant are not in entire administration, so there is risk. there is likewise twist of fate, yet between the 1st issues I discovered in college technological know-how is that the prevalence of two activities is observed as "correlation" and it would not recommend that one motives the different. the priority approximately Stephen is that as quickly as we are relationship somebody, a minimum of somebody who isn't a raving lunatic or extremely-evident lout ... as quickly as we are relationship somebody, they constantly seem wonderful, perfect, dedicated, and an angel. that is purely after the two human beings stay at the same time for 2-3 years that they start to realize that no person - alongside with their companion - is optimal. And in 0.5 the marriages (the divorce fee is 50%), evidently their companion is SO imperfect, any such entire b*tch or b*stard, that they finally end up divorcing. Stephen grow to be not killed by potential of "destiny" so which you mom would marry your dad and in no way have a satisfied marriage. confident, Stephen grow to be in all risk a "solid guy", and you mom did not desire a solid guy. Her subconscious theory she deserved a b*stard, so she broke up with Stephen. And her subconscious picked out your dad quite. the important element right here, although, is that Stephen grow to be not the "perfect angel" she observed. After 2-3 years of marriage, she would have had problems with Stephen too. ALL marriages bypass by way of a era of issues, that lasts 9-17 years, the place they juggle and shove and attempt to make certain a thank you to be satisfied at the same time. not many make it by way of to the "different area" of transforming into it a solid marriage. if your mom had married Stephen quite of your dad, "you" would not exist. Their young infants would be somebody else's young infants ... the infants down the block, or what-have-you.
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answered by cordell 4
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I definitely believe it's fate!!! So many things had happened to me because of fate! if something it has to be done, it will!!! I am happy 4 u! Enjoy it!
2006-09-20 19:59:30
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answered by dulcefragola 1
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no, theres no such thing as fate, destiny, or God, our futures all about the choices and decisions we make and choose to follow, we shape the future I guess, anyways I'd just say luck or coincidence then anything else so have at it. Hopefully you'll have better luck then me, as fate doesn't seem to like me
2006-09-20 18:51:50
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answered by Michael M 3
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Is like 1 to 1 million - you just got lucky.
You think ever wiener of lottery was believing in faith
and the losers not??????
2006-09-20 18:54:55
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answered by Toto 6
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its not fate. its because your a girl. any girl decent girl with a pic and most without will get responses up the wazzoo. he just happened to be your match is all. congrats to ya.
2006-09-20 18:51:03
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answered by Str8 Answers, Hurt Feelings 3
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